I love her a lot but I can’t see myself with her in the long term she’s very depressed and self deprecating she also very sporadic and there’s a lot of irrational things she does on the spurt of the moment but I’m enjoying it now is it worth it or should I leave it now before I hurt her or myself
I love her a lot but I can’t see myself with her in the long term she’s very depressed and self deprecating she also very sporadic and there’s a lot of irrational things she does on the spurt of the moment but I’m enjoying it now is it worth it or should I leave it now before I hurt her or myself
Talk it through with her and be honest to her and yourself if you already know this is not gonna work out for the longterm. It's the right thing to do bro
Talk it through with her and be honest to her and yourself if you already know this is not gonna work out for the longterm. It's the right thing to do bro
I love her as of now but I know it’s a ticking time bomb
I love her as of now but I know it’s a ticking time bomb
Then talk to her about it like i said. You two can only work this out together the most important thing in a relationship is to be honest with each other, if you're not gonna be honest with her about the fact your feeling this way it's only gonna get worse sometime in the future
Generally it depends on a lot of specific factors, it can work. But if you're having doubts, tbh you aren't prepared to deal with this kind of situation. Idk. Truthfully I don't think any of us can tell you what is worth what.
I'm sorry man, being on either side of this kind of situation is the worst.
Generally it depends on a lot of specific factors, it can work. But if you're having doubts, tbh you aren't prepared to deal with this kind of situation. Idk. Truthfully I don't think any of us can tell you what is worth what.
I'm sorry man, being on either side of this kind of situation is the worst.
Basically this. And also if you aren’t prepared or feel like you can bring her or help push her out of that mental barrier that’s causing all those red flags then just leave OP. Don’t waste your or her time
whenever someone starts with "i don't see us long term" it's like what more is there to ask.
A women wouldnt even think twice bout dropping yo ass if the roles were reversed.
A women wouldnt even think twice bout dropping yo ass if the roles were reversed.
That's not entirely true of every woman. I was the one depressed,self deprecating and sporadic. But my girl stuck with me through thick and thin. It really just depends on what the person is willing to put up with.
A women wouldnt even think twice bout dropping yo ass if the roles were reversed.
why you giving him advice 7 months later
why you giving him advice 7 months later
Could still be useful to anyone searching for these type of threads
A women wouldnt even think twice bout dropping yo ass if the roles were reversed.
*woman
Well dating someone with mental health issues is not for the weak.
Help her through it but don't enable her.
You never win dating someone mentally disturbed. You simply sit on the sidelines until they beat it or succumb to it. It’s emotionally draining and I wouldn’t put myself through it again lol
Well dating someone with mental health issues is not for the weak.
Help her through it but don't enable her.
nah drop her
my ex had bpd
best lookin woman i ever been with even that couldnt make up for the problems
nah drop her
my ex had bpd
best lookin woman i ever been with even that couldnt make up for the problems
That's the thing it's not for weak.
I also mention the person needs to want to get help.
Sometimes it can be too much even with the help but again your love should be greater than the disease
I love her a lot but I can’t see myself with her in the long term she’s very depressed and self deprecating she also very sporadic and there’s a lot of irrational things she does on the spurt of the moment but I’m enjoying it now is it worth it or should I leave it now before I hurt her or myself
I could deal with everything except for the sporadic part.
I can't function when people want to change something we had planned.