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  • Something I've thought about recently, do your gains really affect the amount of chicks you pull? I've mainly seen split opinions on this, some folks argue that making gains definitely helps with confidence but chicks don't get overly fixated on looks like we do. On the other hand people are saying girls have ghosted them for not having the best jawline for example or have a strong preference for a muscular dude.

    So what's the conclusion here? Especially when it comes to online dating. Maybe obvious but I need some clarification here

  • It will help railing em in. But having game and being able to hold Convo is what really matters .

  • Depends on the girl

  • look around you and youll see it isnt true.

  • Of course, but just looking in shape is a huuuuuge psitive

    Postur also very important imo

    and going to the gym, seeing results will skyrocket your confidence

  • yeah

    but if you're a f***ing moron and can't talk to them, you've got no chance keeping them interested

  • I know a fat guy thats has a beautiful gf for whatever reason and a skinny boy too , sooooooooooo

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    I've been out of shape my entire life

    Was skinny (150 lbs) now I'm fat (200lbs) and still somehow do ok with women.

    I say just have some positive outgoing energy. You'll be alright.

    Do looks matter? I think so. My cousins look like lil bow wow and Corbin blue (that curly haired n**** from high school musical).

    When I'm with them women literally just walk up and them their phone numbers

    Althoughhhhh I have stolen their girls on a few occasions. In the longterm My personality outshines their's

  • No

  • CNA Lov3ly
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    I've been out of shape my entire life

    Was skinny (150 lbs) now I'm fat (200lbs) and still somehow do ok with women.

    I say just have some positive outgoing energy. You'll be alright.

    Do looks matter? I think so. My cousins look like lil bow wow and Corbin blue (that curly haired n**** from high school musical).

    When I'm with them women literally just walk up and them their phone numbers

    Althoughhhhh I have stolen their girls on a few occasions. In the longterm My personality outshines their's

    I'm sure you constantly get jealous whenever your with him

    But I feel you, having the looks definitely helps with getting the foot in the door

  • Smoofer

    Depends on the girl

    Unfortunately I've heard about a lot of women acting shallow towards other guys, of course that's just what I heard from my buds

  • Something people really seem to not understand, on both sides of the question, is that once you're in the bedroom it means that both parties are down. I don't know about y'all but I'm not dumb. If the girl is hella thick and you can't see a belly through the clothing I still know she has a lil something.

    As long as you take care of yourself you should be fine though. I used to have a slight dad bod that I thankfully got rid of but like it was all for myself. I didn't look fat at all with clothing, just a lil beer belly naked and they didn't care.

    Hell, I've been with a couple girls who actually enjoyed how out of shape I was lmao. I guess it's the female version of males into feeders.

  • Everyone has different preferences

  • Yes and no.

    Initial attraction and confidence and being able to have convos are def high in the start stage 1.

    But after awhile its really your personality and actions that make you stay with that person(and how good your in bed).

    So if your body isnt how it was when yall first dated its fine cause they already know ya right?

    So initially yea.
    Late game not really.

  • Buryly

    I'm sure you constantly get jealous whenever your with him

    But I feel you, having the looks definitely helps with getting the foot in the door

    Now that I'm older I use them n****s like bait on a fishing hook. They're the pretty n****s. I'm the goofy hype man. I more so just enjoy the s*** we get into.

    Growing up tho ....

    Bruh.... There was a girl I had a crush on from like 10 years old to like 15/16ish. I never had the balls to tell her.

    One day I'm with my cousin. She was with her friends. My cousin taps me on the shoulder and says he's bout to go to the bathroom. My crush walks over to me from across the room looking cute as s***. She asks to talk to private. In my head I'm thinking this finna be the moment ive been fantasizing for years. Like in my heart of hearts I knew that THAT MOMENT was about to be THE BEST MOMENT OF MY LIFE......

    This hoe asked me if I could introduce her and her friends to my cousin

    Still had a fun day with her and friends though

  • Buryly

    Unfortunately I've heard about a lot of women acting shallow towards other guys, of course that's just what I heard from my buds

    Women are no different than men. They got preferences too. Some are shallow. Some don't give af.

    That's just life

  • CNA Lov3ly

    Now that I'm older I use them n****s like bait on a fishing hook. They're the pretty n****s. I'm the goofy hype man. I more so just enjoy the s*** we get into.

    Growing up tho ....

    Bruh.... There was a girl I had a crush on from like 10 years old to like 15/16ish. I never had the balls to tell her.

    One day I'm with my cousin. She was with her friends. My cousin taps me on the shoulder and says he's bout to go to the bathroom. My crush walks over to me from across the room looking cute as s***. She asks to talk to private. In my head I'm thinking this finna be the moment ive been fantasizing for years. Like in my heart of hearts I knew that THAT MOMENT was about to be THE BEST MOMENT OF MY LIFE......

    This hoe asked me if I could introduce her and her friends to my cousin

    Still had a fun day with her and friends though

    That must've lowkey hurt though

    I'm glad that you still had a fun day with them

  • CNA Lov3ly

    Women are no different than men. They got preferences too. Some are shallow. Some don't give af.

    That's just life

    Yep I agree

  • Buryly

    Unfortunately I've heard about a lot of women acting shallow towards other guys, of course that's just what I heard from my buds

    It depends. Just like w guys

  • Not for real, it certainly helps but is not that important

  • Its literally 100% dependent on the woman.

  • CNA Lov3ly

    Women are no different than men. They got preferences too. Some are shallow. Some don't give af.

    That's just life

  • Buryly

    That must've lowkey hurt though

    I'm glad that you still had a fun day with them

    It's goofy to get jealous of your friend because the girl you wants wants your friend.

    I've been on both ends of that stick. I remember a girl who I was head over heels for was all up in my cousin face. I got jealous at the time and he hit me with the "bro I'm not even doing anything ". At that moment I realized that gatekeeping women is stupid as f***. If shes attracted to someone then let her do her thing. It's no different than us dudes. We've all been in that situation where you want a girl but her friend is cockblocking. Most likely her friend is attracted to you and can't handle the idea of you being with her friend.

    Honestly Men and women aren't that different.

  • CNA Lov3ly

    I've been out of shape my entire life

    Was skinny (150 lbs) now I'm fat (200lbs) and still somehow do ok with women.

    I say just have some positive outgoing energy. You'll be alright.

    Do looks matter? I think so. My cousins look like lil bow wow and Corbin blue (that curly haired n**** from high school musical).

    When I'm with them women literally just walk up and them their phone numbers

    Althoughhhhh I have stolen their girls on a few occasions. In the longterm My personality outshines their's

  • BigBoy

    Name to post correlation lol

    But nah I really want to get back down to like 160.

    Luckily I'm 6'0 so 200lbs doesnt look too bad on me. But I'd be lying to you if I didn't say I was pulling more women when I weighed less.

    Drunk Women used to literally scream "YOU'RE CUTE".

    Now women go through my phone and exclaim "THAT'S YOU!?"

    not a good feeling fam

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