So before u judge, this guy is autistic so he can’t figure out stuff like other folks can. Last year he got catfished for 6 months, then immediately went on the rebound after he found out and cuffed this random girl on the internet. This girl is a total DUD. Can’t keep a job, high maintenance, always calling him and s***. She has too many family problems as well. He moved super fast with her, moved in after a month and they’re already engaged after 2 months. All day at work he complains about having to work extra shifts to afford rent and her bills and it pisses me off. It’s not my place to say that she’s not the one for him but... Jesus Christ, the things i hear abt their relationship is insane. No man would wanna be with her, and it’s clear to me that she loves being babied and pampered. I jus don’t want him to be taken advantage of. His life has objectively gotten worse since he started seeing her

Who are you to judge

I mean all u can do is tell him how u feel its his life to live lol

Becuz I’m one of his only friends and I’m worried about him? Dudes got aspergers and has zero social awareness and can’t understand how unhealthy his relationship is

As much as it sounds like a morally right thing to do, it honestly isn’t your place as a coworker to do so. And even if you did you can’t force him to do anything, sometimes people have to get burned before they realize they can’t grab hot things.

anime avi calling other people autistic boy i done seen it all

Engaged after 2 months

Nothing you can do to help

That’s where I’m usually at, but on days like today it’s hard to take it anymore. She’s a f***ing bum and holding him back. She’s got so many problems that she’s projecting onto him it’s unbelievable.

Disagree. Dude is autistic, he might benefit from a second opinion

Dont straight up say "You have to dump your girl" but maybe ask him some questions to get him thinking, idk

Bruh, he got her pregnant after 3. Then they lost the baby on Xmas, now they’re pregnant again with twins

Tell him that if he asks you for advice.

Break up with your fiancé, I’m bored

Yeah that’s definitely a good idea. I didn’t see the autistic part for some reason

Dawg,are you making this s*** up as u go along because this is insane

Somehow I didn’t see he was autistic, like that poster above said I would approach him with the intent of getting him to question why things are the way they are in the relationship. If the wheels start turning in his head maybe he can realize what’s best for him.

he’s bunzo dunzo

How old are they both and did they have any prior experience with long term committed relationships?

Me and my girl moved extremely fast but we were both mature and had multiple experiences in long term relationships so we knew what we had was special. Now its been years and we're thriving

My point being, just because its fast doesn't mean its wrong

Nah man, lol i always think to myself that this guys’ life is wild

Dam

They’re 21. I’m not sure abt his fiancé but nah, my coworker doesn’t have any experience.

"yoooo did u see that kimye it's about to split. Damn! Do you ever considered leaving your girl?"

Not even cool yo. especially since op is genuinely concerned about this dude’s well-being and future.

its not that easy!