Jul 18, 2020I was helping a friend assemble a bed and noticed he had the wrong tool. Told him that he had the wrong tool and showed him the right one, but he got defensive and insisted that the wrong tool would work. He broke the piece, I said "I told you it was the wrong one" and he started arguing with me about if the tool in the manual wouldve worked. At that point I said f*** this and drove back home
I know its petty to be so pissed but this is just an example of situations with people where my good will is distorted or I'm made to feel like I started a needless conflict. I know that oustide factors might put people at edge and eager to pour out their frustration but I feel I've been the recipient too many times. I feel burnt out of talking to people and s*** now because of the amount of times little to none of my compassion is reciprocated. How do y'all deal with s*** like this?
Jul 18, 2020I feel burnt out of talking to people and s*** now because of the amount of times little to none of my compassion is reciprocated. How do y'all deal with s*** like this?
take a break from people, cold turkey
Jul 18, 2020thats not social burnout its just your friend being a d***
Jul 18, 2020·2 replies
he sleeping on the floor tonight
Jul 18, 2020Send him a pic of your bed with the caption "You wish you could"
Jul 18, 2020That was just him being dumb. But if you find this kind of thing happening often maybe take a look at your communication and how you come across. Some people come across as d***s when they aren’t even trying to
Jul 18, 2020I just haven't spoke to the actual friend group that caused the burnout in years
When niggas act like they cool then switch when you comfortable<<<<<<<
proper 🔩Jul 18, 2020·6 repliesSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”- OPJul 18, 2020proper
Send him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”
- Jul 18, 2020Puma he sleeping on the floor tonight
Lmfaooooo
Zaywop 🐶Jul 18, 2020properSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”Ok
Jul 18, 2020the redsI was helping a friend assemble a bed and noticed he had the wrong tool. Told him that he had the wrong tool and showed him the right one, but he got defensive and insisted that the wrong tool would work. He broke the piece, I said "I told you it was the wrong one" and he started arguing with me about if the tool in the manual wouldve worked. At that point I said f*** this and drove back home
I know its petty to be so pissed but this is just an example of situations with people where my good will is distorted or I'm made to feel like I started a needless conflict. I know that oustide factors might put people at edge and eager to pour out their frustration but I feel I've been the recipient too many times. I feel burnt out of talking to people and s*** now because of the amount of times little to none of my compassion is reciprocated. How do y'all deal with s*** like this?
You're friend is mechanically inept
Jul 18, 2020·1 replyproperSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”
- proper 🔩Jul 18, 2020dadye
Jul 18, 2020don’t feel like you’re being petty for wanting your alone time and wanting to recharge. all my good friends and i have understandings that sometimes we just want to be alone and be in our own company and that’s perfectly fine
Jul 18, 2020properSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”woah dere boi
- Jul 18, 2020
nothing wrong with wanting to spend time alone
eclass ⛓️Jul 18, 2020yeah not sure how thats a social burnout, but I typically make an effort not to try to get discouraged from the lack of reciprocation because at the end of the day you tried and the recipient will realize they a bum ass friend.
I try to workout, go for a bike ride, or chill with my SO when i feel burnt out though.
- Jul 18, 2020Puma he sleeping on the floor tonight
Mmm Hmm ⚡Jul 18, 2020the redsI was helping a friend assemble a bed and noticed he had the wrong tool. Told him that he had the wrong tool and showed him the right one, but he got defensive and insisted that the wrong tool would work. He broke the piece, I said "I told you it was the wrong one" and he started arguing with me about if the tool in the manual wouldve worked. At that point I said f*** this and drove back home
I know its petty to be so pissed but this is just an example of situations with people where my good will is distorted or I'm made to feel like I started a needless conflict. I know that oustide factors might put people at edge and eager to pour out their frustration but I feel I've been the recipient too many times. I feel burnt out of talking to people and s*** now because of the amount of times little to none of my compassion is reciprocated. How do y'all deal with s*** like this?
Take a break from people and being nice
Jul 18, 2020your friend is ed.
be big brained and read a book with a glass of wine for the evening.
Jul 18, 2020properSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”
Jul 18, 2020properSend him a text like “I’m sorry for letting my emotions get in the way king. I’m coming back over to help make your bed frame now. We can f*** on it after we’re done building
”So weird
Jul 18, 2020Why say “I told you so”