Small talk is all about asking questions. People like talking about themselves throw in an opinion and a compliment every once and a while (if you’re flirting) and you good
Also once you’re able to overcome your fear of rejection the better at it you’ll be. Doesn’t matter how great of a conversationalist you are, you’ll rub someone the wrong way. If you do move on to the next that’s how you find like minded people you’re able to build deeper relationships with
the key is doing/SAYING whatevr makes sense in the moment. Also just do not give a f*** and openly display that. Women will find this attractive as long as you just do not care about what they think. Do not laugh too much or try to be funny tho. Talk less, and ask her questions about herself and go from there. Stare directly in her eyes expressionless, this is key, its often intimidating but attractive to women its pretty simple, dont talk about yourself and let her do most the talking
the key is doing/SAYING whatevr makes sense in the moment. Also just do not give a f*** and openly display that. Women will find this attractive as long as you just do not care about what they think. Do not laugh too much or try to be funny tho. Talk less, and ask her questions about herself and go from there. Stare directly in her eyes expressionless, this is key, its often intimidating but attractive to women its pretty simple, dont talk about yourself and let her do most the talking
lmao i like how u automatically assume its about wanting somebody to find me attractive
Think of yourself as a tiny alien trying to blend in
It disassociates you enough from the situation to not be too uncomfortable, and hopefully pushes you to be indistinguishable from real humans