Is having a gf even worth it?

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  • Indicud

    Half indian half pakistani

    Ah I see, lowkey feel ya though. People told me race don’t matter much but I’ve seen so many meh looking Asians and Whites have success on dating apps, where my Muslim ass was struggling on there

  • When you find real love, you’ll understand.

  • Buryly

    Ah I see, lowkey feel ya though. People told me race don’t matter much but I’ve seen so many meh looking Asians and Whites have success on dating apps, where my Muslim ass was struggling on there

    yeah i feel like it definitely matters

    where i live blacks and whites have a much easier time

  • Have you ever had a gf? You talking about negatives of trying to find the right girl, but once you do it is worth it.

  • 1000% agree

    man I met this girl who was cute, was really into me and really wanted to hang out

    today she blocked me on snap lol outta nowhere, i'm not pressed on it but its just a common example. girls are f***ing crazy and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. women complain about men not caring but these hoes are 10x worse. id never block a girl like that bc I would feel bad about it.

  • Indicud

    I just wish I could see what it’s like for once. idk how y’all were getting girlfriends back in high school and s***. it seems like trying to win the lottery to me

    I wish was white so bad in hs just to experience all that s***. girls, dances, parties.

  • Why do people expect women (or men) to owe them anything? If someone is single they have no obligations to you, just as you don’t to them. It’s all in the game you just have to roll with the punches. Just keep it g and learn from your mistakes

  • Changeofheart

    Have you ever had a gf? You talking about negatives of trying to find the right girl, but once you do it is worth it.

    no i havent

  • It sounds kinda awful but it’s dope to have a gf when you don’t care about her and she does most the work

  • Indicud

    Swear it takes so much work to try and get a date. So many messages you gotta send, so many rejections, so many girls who never respond, so much awkwardness, so many “sorry i’m busy” replies, getting out of your comfort zone, putting yourself out there. Is this s*** even worth it?

    I was just watching a nature documentary that showed these male lizards showing off their colorful skin to try and attract a female and they had to fight each other just to have a chance. Humans really aren’t all that different. We gotta go through so much bullshit just to find a partner.

    Then like the defeated lizard, your genetics will end with you.

  • Indicud

    Like i been texting with this girl for a while and i’ve asked her if she’s free two different weekends and both times she’s said she has work. But she keeps on texting me

    Like if you’re not interested then just say so and stop wasting my time

    You’re not working literally 24/7. You probably get off at like 5.

    Don’t text her back

  • Sixty 5

    I wish was white so bad in hs just to experience all that s***. girls, dances, parties.

    i grew up in an all white school in NY. used to get bullied for it all the time. i was in elementary school when 9/11 happened so it was peak racism. girls would avoid me, and the boys called me a terrorist

    obviously that doesn’t happen anymore as an adult but when it comes to dating it does feel like i’m still at a disadvantage

  • Tbh I can see you not wanting a girlfriend if the girls you talk to are unmotivated, make no money, and aren’t willing to be your partner. If she has her own initiative, then the relationship is mutually beneficial

  • Indicud

    no i havent

    Don’t give up just recognize when a girl is playing games and move on to the next

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    Indicud

    Like i been texting with this girl for a while and i’ve asked her if she’s free two different weekends and both times she’s said she has work. But she keeps on texting me

    Like if you’re not interested then just say so and stop wasting my time

    You’re not working literally 24/7. You probably get off at like 5.

    She wants attention and she also wants you on the bench for when the starting 5 starts acting out. You gotta f*** with women who aren’t on this childish time

  • Indicud

    Like i been texting with this girl for a while and i’ve asked her if she’s free two different weekends and both times she’s said she has work. But she keeps on texting me

    Like if you’re not interested then just say so and stop wasting my time

    You’re not working literally 24/7. You probably get off at like 5.

    Don’t tell us that, tell her directly “you interested or nah?” Lol

  • PapiAngel

    x2 of the money u spend also

    #NoBrokeHoes2020

  • Indicud

    Swear it takes so much work to try and get a date. So many messages you gotta send, so many rejections, so many girls who never respond, so much awkwardness, so many “sorry i’m busy” replies, getting out of your comfort zone, putting yourself out there. Is this s*** even worth it?

    I was just watching a nature documentary that showed these male lizards showing off their colorful skin to try and attract a female and they had to fight each other just to have a chance. Humans really aren’t all that different. We gotta go through so much bullshit just to find a partner.

    Money is the cheat code.

  • Nahfam, it’s time, money, mental consuming, aint worth it

  • I’ve come to the conclusion that it is worth it if the alternative is being alone and getting scammed by hoes

  • Indicud

    I’ve come to the conclusion that it is worth it if the alternative is being alone and getting scammed by hoes

    maybe stop paying for hoes then it might be worth it

  • CNA Lov3ly

    maybe shes just a responsible young woman. as of right now i literally have ZERO free time. im in school monday through friday. im a full time employee. i put in 32 hours every weekend.

    like the weeknd said:
    "And everybody salty, n****s stop your b****in'
    Everybody makin' money, we don't need to kick it"

    respect her grind. i wish i could find a responsible ambitious woman

    she's still talkin to you so there must be something about you she likes :)

    Idc what you say. Everybody has free time. Yes, even working while going to school full time. If someone’s feeling you, they make time easily

  • CGod

    Idc what you say. Everybody has free time. Yes, even working while going to school full time. If someone’s feeling you, they make time easily

    saturday and sunday i work from 6am to 11pm
    monday through friday im in school from 6:30/7:30am to 2/3pm and afterschool im doing hours of homework. whatever free time i have is just to eat. Plus on tuesdays i immediately leave school to log in an 8hr shift at work

    if my mother didnt live with me i would probably have to sadly get rid of my dog because of the lack of free time i have.

    the only reason im not at work right now is because i had diarrhea since friday morning and they didnt want me to come in because i might get some of the patients sick.

    and even today im going to be playin catch up and studying for a test i have tomorrow + a project thats due tomorrow.

    there are women who currently want to talk to me. and YES i want to talk to them (one in particular is stupid cute) but i literally cant.

    im not going to potentially jeopardize my dreams over some p**** TUH

    I highkey shouldnt even be wasting time on ktt right now......matter of fact im loggin off and gettin back to what i need to be doing lol

  • Indicud

    Like i been texting with this girl for a while and i’ve asked her if she’s free two different weekends and both times she’s said she has work. But she keeps on texting me

    Like if you’re not interested then just say so and stop wasting my time

    You’re not working literally 24/7. You probably get off at like 5.

    She might be shy/introverted

    If thats not the case shes an attention w**** or doesnt want to make u feel bad by saying the truth

  • CNA Lov3ly

    saturday and sunday i work from 6am to 11pm
    monday through friday im in school from 6:30/7:30am to 2/3pm and afterschool im doing hours of homework. whatever free time i have is just to eat. Plus on tuesdays i immediately leave school to log in an 8hr shift at work

    if my mother didnt live with me i would probably have to sadly get rid of my dog because of the lack of free time i have.

    the only reason im not at work right now is because i had diarrhea since friday morning and they didnt want me to come in because i might get some of the patients sick.

    and even today im going to be playin catch up and studying for a test i have tomorrow + a project thats due tomorrow.

    there are women who currently want to talk to me. and YES i want to talk to them (one in particular is stupid cute) but i literally cant.

    im not going to potentially jeopardize my dreams over some p**** TUH

    I highkey shouldnt even be wasting time on ktt right now......matter of fact im loggin off and gettin back to what i need to be doing lol

    ok this real

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