This s*** sucks it’s been stemming since august 2019 but just last month, my dad was finally ordered to move out..divorce still not official but it’s in the process

I thought it would be peaceful after that but it’s been a s***show and I’m so tired...my Dad, mainly ,has been so annoying

-My Dad Had to pay $2500 to my mom starting December 1st...he was late like a week and kept stalling..my mom was stressing like crazy..I hated seeing that

-Both parents were using me as a middle man and that s*** was so stressful I told them to stop

-My Dad Showed up to the house without permission to get a refrigerator he was storing, ended up taking my little brothers car

He took the car because my mom had asked for the keys Incase I needed to use it..my car had a flat that week, and this week it broke down... he just wants to prevent my mom from teaching my little brother how to drive cause he wants to be the one to do it

My mom is scared af to drive with us...she definitely wouldn’t teach my brother how to drive

He has 2 trucks and left one at our house, there was no reason for him to take the other car other than to be annoying

My moms lawyer isn’t prioritizing her and hasn’t done s*** about all the s*** my Dad has done that went against the judges orders and she wants to get a new one..but she can’t afford it I don’t want her to go in debt over this

This s*** seems like it’s never gonna end how do I get thru this?

Man f*** their childish bullshit they need to grow tf up

I know man but I don’t know how to get thru to them...my mom wanted it to be a fair divorce, she didn’t even want half of everything but since my dad is acting childish, she’s doing the same and it’s aggravating

Ignoring each others texts etc. it’s so draining

Sorry you’re going through this.

They need to learn to be civil. You and your sibling should be the most important ones and made a priority.

Playing games will tear everyone apart.

Feel u my dad was petty as s*** we had to get a restraining order to get him out of the house

Nah bro my dad never buys gifts and my mom barely has any money 🙃

this man

I feel for you. It’s used to be annoying af when my parents would involve me in their petty power struggles. I hope s*** gets better for you.

You need to flat out tell them how negatively this s*** is affecting you. If they love you they’ll listen.

same bro :( makes living at home a living hell.

nothing much you can do or say unless they ask for your opinion

grown kids have children ain’t gonna listen to anyone

just gotta be strong offer support to whichever needs it the most and rn seems like it’s your mother.