How you guys feel about that? My sister is moving out soon and we're trying to figure out what to do with the extra room and I don't feel like getting a roommate so I'm just letting my girl have it. But I was curious how you guys view it? Seems perfectly normal to me and a tad healthier and I've seen it done in homes before but I know it's not necessarily the 'norm'

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So I don't have to keep telling everyone she said she still wants to sleep together every night regardless of the room we do it in. Just meant to give her a little bit of her own space instead of us being up each other's ass 24/7 for everything, which is how we spend a lot of our home time.

If you in an open relationship then sure.

But imma die when you hear someone in her guts through the wall.

Separate beds is one thing.

But separate rooms?

Is she gonna sleep in that room?

relationship dependent but truthfully it's likely to signal you don't like her as much as you think you do, especially if it's something you do when you're still young

You can only do that when you married for 20 years

People are supposed to be alone naturally, it’s really healthy to let your SO have space and be their own person. Once you get dependent on someone for anything such as happiness, etc you’re done for. You would be lying to yourself and your partner if you said you want to sleep w them every night, it’s okay to want to be alone

Bruh wtf

Seperate beds are for soulless marriages

That's some weird s*** for couples who broke up or divorced but neither one wants to move out because they're both on the lease

The idea of sleeping in separate rooms is strange to me.
My wife and I have a 3 bedroom place and we turned the extra 2 bedrooms into a guest room and office.

I like the guest bedroom cause we can have family/friends visit and they don't have to crash on the couch or an air mattress

More room for my things sounds like a good idea and I do not want to share a bed

ITT: clingy ass niggas.

@op all for it. Make each other actually miss each other and WANT to be around each other instead of having to always see this person 24/7 and when s*** goes through rough patches you nor her even have their own space to decompress peacefully

Ppl saying thats a sign yall dont really like each other are dumb as hell. Most of the time yall prolly sleeping together, but there’s gonna be times where y’all both wanna be alone and it would be cool to not have to leave the house for that.

Personally that’s not for me, I be wanting to cuddle n s*** every night while pretending to like those lifetime movies. But more power to anyone strong enough for that.

We will sleep together every night still. Just giving us both our own little spaces 🤷

How it should be tbh

I mean I brought up that it would be dope for her to have her own space in that way since it would just be a vacant room and I don't want roommates, she said she wants to sleep together every night regardless of which room we do it in 🤷 some people itt thinking way too deep into it

They never grew up with siblings

Don’t listen to generalizations itt, every relationship is different and people make all kinds of s*** work. There’s no one rule that says oh this won’t work

If it works it works

Nah fr, I grew up having to share a room literally every space I've ever lived in. I tell her shes in charge of decor and everything but I know she doesn't go all out like she would her own space and obviously occupying the same space with someone 24/7 you're going to make certain compromises when you can easily avoid it just giving someone their own little area if you have the room for it which I do 🤷

We'll see how it goes in practice soon though

I mean it’s just like having a man cave, personally I woulda made it a guest room or office but to each their own

Media room 😈

An extra room would actually a really amazing thing to have in a relationship.

Don't make a separate bedroom though, that's just weird & hostile tbh.

A chill lounge space for alone time whenever one of you inevitably needs it would be perfect. A little escape within your own home. Whenever one of you is in there, it should be understood to the other that they should be left alone.

Make it nice and cozy with some comfy seating, ambient lights, a nice sound system, some bookshelves, etc. etc. Whatever your vibe is.

Well it's the same idea as a lounge room except instead of a general lounge room it's YOUR lounge room done up just how you like it instead of once again having to compromise on certain things to have a lounge room to both likings. Like I have said we are still sleeping together every night so it's same difference fr.