i have this issue where i speak and act quicker than i think and therefore act by committee n impulse a lot

anytime anyone ever offers me something and im not pinpoint focused i quickly say no thanks even if its something very trivial or even something id welcome very much at the time like say a glass of water

like a second after this i will always regret it cause my internal voice starts cussin at me talkin bout but you do want that wtf

part of it stems from my childhood where id never ask for anything during grocery runs with my mom knowing she didnt have it like that and another part of it might be that i dont want to cause nobody inconveniences or hassle and that s*** is jus hella annoying in practice

i missed out on so many favors and opportunities at handouts all because im conditioned like a b****

Something I started doing is dapping people up with my right hand only regardless of how inconvenient it is
Good way to practice mindfulness
Also that’s considered rude op

r u left handed

@op u gotta open up more
trust more
let niggas inside

i do this too and sometimes i really want what they offered

same. im getting better at just saying yes though. we overthink too much

never forget i was starving and my girls mom asked me if i wanted a bowl of macaroni s*** looked scrumptious and i said no

I feel u when people ask if I wanna take a bite in their food just to taste or a sip I just say no instinctively

Nah I got a personal tatt on my right arm so I stopped doing certain things with it
like wiping my ass so it extended to other things I guess

i always double hit people w the “u sure?” when i ask too bc i know a lot of times they saying no to be polite

missed out on so much food

YES exactly. Always make sure to ask multiple times
Or if it's something I have in my hands I just hand it to them regardless cause they mightve said ''no'' without thinking / to be polite

Same I do this too like I feel like saying no to someone's offering is the polite thing to do for some reason idk im dum
I also am pretty impulsive as well but i don't think that's why I do it

Everybody I've ever dapped up uses their right hand?