S*** with all the easy attention most of them get from desperate dudes, you’d think they’d be full of confidence.

agree but hopefully we won't get to the point where making harmless conversations with strangers is taboo

growing up my mom would talk to everybody everywhere. just small chit chat about random stuff. if you take that approach and then check the vibe to see if she's interested in further conversation, there's nothing creepy or sexual about it

but you're right it's the creeps ruining it for everybody because an organic cold approach is so much healthier than online dating

u lucked out g

My dad does the same thing even to this day, he makes everyone laugh and receptive to him. Man I strive to talk like him

No y’all just gotta pick up on signs lol

If a girl keep staring and making eye contact then approach

If not then you approaching at your own risk

And once she indicate she not tryna talk fall back

It's always been weird to approach someone you have no knowledge of. We got the internet now and it's way better and safe for both people browse around their profile to see if you got common interests and stuff. Cold approach rarely ever led to an actual long term relationship

no its not lol i talk to strangers every day

How is it safer lmao? A rapist could use either one of those approaches

Bar hoes are bottom tier tho

I feel like this is only an issue if you don't know how to talk to women or you're a weirdo.

Moment of silence for this manlet

yea man that's one of the best traits a person can have. a friendly smile and a bit of wit takes you far and just makes you and people around you happier. my mom's like that and my dad is more introverted, which unfortunately is more of the part I inherited lol

Fr and that's how you actually make people like you irl, just gotta be charismatic, funny, and not awkward. My family is the opposite where my mom is slightly more introverted too, got mine from her.

Been getting better at it nowadays, not as shy anymore and could get quite outgoing easily (Depends on the situation)

I doubt it lol

1. Don’t be weird about it. If you’re going to cold approach a woman you need to be confident about it. Second guessing yourself in the middle of it will come across extremely obviously to the woman you’re approaching.

2. Don’t do it at night/in the dark/alone/etc. This should be common sense but if you’re going to cold approach a woman you should do it in a pretty open place where it’s lit so things don’t get misconstrued. Women are usually always on edge if they’re alone in public and having some dude ask them out out of nowhere is probably the last thing on their mind.

3. If they say no, walk away. Don’t be like the dude in that video who followed the woman LONGGGG after she said no (to the point where she started recording). If she says no, she’s not playing hard to get, she’s not interested in going out with you.

A good majority of us would not even be here currently if the "cold approach rarely led to an actual long term relationship"

I think some of y'all just gotta work on your people skills and adapt to the changing times man. You can still engage with random people and it can lead to a connection. You can still approach a woman you are interested if you are getting the cues that they are interested too. It's easy to tell.

exactly. and I always felt like the introvert/extrovert label was too binary. it's something that depends on the situation and definitely something you can work on as you age and gain more confidence

Fr and not gonna front I still have to work on it, though made me feel much better. Like last night when my roommates and all her friends were over I got to know one of them well, though I still felt little shy and awkward around them

Depends on location. Cold approach out on the streets outside is over with. But in indoor public settings u can still pull it off depending on the vibe of the place

No don't be weird

literally this. have a convo, connect, grab a number and set something up later.

this is never going away lmao its Relationship Building 101.

Ugly niggas won

Come on, just keep it real. If she’s feeling, she’s feeling you regardless of approach. If someone thinks you’re ugly, unless they’re just a friendly person, they don’t want to be approached by a random that will turn into an extended convo

It’s dead if you are 9/10 and below tbh

Guarantee you the guy in that other thread is seen as a weirdo across his whole campus

Was with a girl once and she got cold approached and she just went with it but she told me later she thought the guy looked autistic and didn’t want to trigger him It’s not nearly as smooth as ppl think it is