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  • Mar 31, 2021

    Jus becuz a bunch of purple haired lesbians say something on Twitter doesn’t mean it’s tru

  • I just find it weird regardless if your an attractive man like usually people are trying to go about their business in public and you're just gonna go and try and interrupt that

  • Mar 31, 2021

    IMO its highly unethical to shoot your shot at women, either IRL or on the Internet

    You're objectifying them as a sexual object rather than seeing them as a person. Ban premarital sex. Ban alcohol. Ban p***.

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    Zezima

    Said it in a different thread. Best course of action is to normalize women approaching and starting the conversation. That way there isn’t no more complaints about that.

    I highly doubt most guys gonna trip About females harassing them unless they truly are. While with a woman, harassment is very fine line and perceptual.

    That's how you end up with societies like Japan where neither men or women end up having s***or relationships.

  • Mar 31, 2021
    Sgt Leaf

    Are we not already in that time? I stopped a while ago, around my late teens to early 20s. I imagine as a woman it's annoying as hell having to deal with dudes approaching you every day thinking they're smooth as hell even though you've heard the same corny lines all day and you're just trying to go to the store/workout/chill out in the park

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    Montreal

    That's how you end up with societies like Japan where neither men or women end up having s***or relationships.

    I don’t know much about Japan or how it got that way but been known that that’s where America is headed and probably most societies, the amount of people having s***is already way down

  • Mar 31, 2021
    EGO

    f*** dating apps . they are going to breed us short men out of existence

    I know short people who’ve had luck on dating apps, girls who won’t get with a guy below 6 feet aren’t worthy of your time anyway

  • Mar 31, 2021

    I don't know it's hard to say.

    Ultimately I think it comes down to the culture within any given group at any given time. Predictions over the circumstances that will continue to define culture are beyond me.

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    DYNAMIC UNO 2WORDS

    I don’t know much about Japan or how it got that way but been known that that’s where America is headed and probably most societies, the amount of people having s***is already way down

    Women there don't see the men as masculine enough to warrant having relationships with them. The men don't see the women as worth it as they have all they need on the internet to satisfy their desire.

    Obviously I'm grossly hyperboling what's going on there, but you get the point.

  • EGO

    f*** dating apps . they are going to breed us short men out of existence

    speak for yourself my nigga

  • Montreal

    Women there don't see the men as masculine enough to warrant having relationships with them. The men don't see the women as worth it as they have all they need on the internet to satisfy their desire.

    Obviously I'm grossly hyperboling what's going on there, but you get the point.

    That’s pretty wild, we will probably get to a similar place soon

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    not gonna lie this whole thread just sounds like a bunch of hurt niggas whining about not getting nun'

  • Mar 31, 2021
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    A lot of you niggas are confusing actual harassment with simply asking for a girls phone number lmfao

  • user

    No y’all just gotta pick up on signs lol

    If a girl keep staring and making eye contact then approach

    If not then you approaching at your own risk

    And once she indicate she not tryna talk fall back

    Think you said it in another thread but women are just as h**** as niggas is if the right one come along. ​She'll take initiative in other ways. The sad part is most of the guys that be "feeling like they not too good enough" is mostly self inflicted.

    Both height and weight aint a deal breaker like society makes it seem.

  • Mar 31, 2021

    Not at all

    I don’t see the harm as long as you’re not being too abrasive

    But if she telling you she ain’t interested, time to move on and leave her alone

    I don’t get why it’s so difficult for men to not harass women

  • Mar 31, 2021
    kogoyos

    agree but hopefully we won't get to the point where making harmless conversations with strangers is taboo

    growing up my mom would talk to everybody everywhere. just small chit chat about random stuff. if you take that approach and then check the vibe to see if she's interested in further conversation, there's nothing creepy or sexual about it

    but you're right it's the creeps ruining it for everybody because an organic cold approach is so much healthier than online dating

    I mean I think we're there already, I don't think people make random convos with people because of phones. Why try to get into a convo with a person at the bus station when you can text someone you personally know on the phone, play a game, go on social media, etc.

    In-person communication is really dying if we're real.

  • Mar 31, 2021

    Best way to do it is honestly when you are both sharing a common activity together or you both are involved in a natural action to exchange numbers or show interest
    not as “disruptive”

  • Mar 31, 2021

    I think it would still be acceptable but only in places or situations where socializing is expected like at a club, bar, school, concert, festival etc. The days of cold approaching someone you just walked by on the street are numbered though.

  • Apology Men Music

    not gonna lie this whole thread just sounds like a bunch of hurt niggas whining about not getting nun'

  • kogoyos

    if we do it will be only the fault of men

  • FlyMx

    A lot of you niggas are confusing actual harassment with simply asking for a girls phone number lmfao

    !

  • Mar 31, 2021

    Y’all fearful of cold approaching because you might get labeled a harasser? Nah, literally just stop harassing these women. You’re allowed to speak to women in public. The problem is when you awkward mfs approach women in inappropriate settings and put them in a pressure situation where they’re given a yes-or-no ultimatum unexpectedly. Don’t do that. Talk to them in the same way you would when having any friendly conversation with a stranger. Y’all just be creeps out there foreal.

    When it comes to dating app game you certainly have people out there who have the the Tinder blinders on and never stop the observe other options irl because they are not as easily categorized, defined, and filed like a dating app profile. Hopefully we see less of this in the future, bc the game f*** up for the youth out there. Glad I’m happily taken.

  • Mar 31, 2021
    user

    No y’all just gotta pick up on signs lol

    If a girl keep staring and making eye contact then approach

    If not then you approaching at your own risk

    And once she indicate she not tryna talk fall back

    This. Also, look to see if she removes hair from her face. It’s a subtle thing girl’s do often when they are talking to a guy they like.

  • Mar 31, 2021

    the year is 2030. you must ask someone if you can politely greet them or you will be fined $500