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  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Lightsxo

    The thing that worked for me was knowing maybe the time wasn’t right.

    Clearly I got along with her enough for it to work but just not now.

    Just knowing that in the future when circumstances change it could work made it easier to let go for the now.

    It didn’t end up working out but it got me through.

    Thanks bro I really appreciate the advice. It’s funny you say that cause that’s what I’ve kinda been thinking to get over this and I’ve done a really good job the last while just doing my own thing

    I’ve just come to a point where I have no interest in the back and forth right now so I’m done. And the fact that I never replied to her is telling to me

    As for you I hope that maybe in the long run it does work out but if not someone will come along and blow that person right out of the water

  • Chief Julio šŸ‡ŖšŸ‡ø
    Jan 16, 2021
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    ovocrew

    Damn y’all going thru it

    😪

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Dr FyaskHO

    Do it man life too short to just think

    It’s cause she’s saying she really likes me and we’ve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldn’t even bother with this but I do like her a lot. I’m trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesn’t work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and it’s hard u feel

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Chief Julio

    😪

    You too huh

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    First Take

    It’s cause she’s saying she really likes me and we’ve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldn’t even bother with this but I do like her a lot. I’m trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesn’t work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and it’s hard u feel

    Don’t talk unless she’s trying to hang out in person

  • Jan 16, 2021

    Hope you all get what you’re looking for šŸ™

  • Ye24 🧢
    Jan 16, 2021
    Lightsxo

    The worst feeling is what if I did this or what if I did that.

    Relationships end all the time but you have to live with yourself in your head

    Damn

  • Chief Julio šŸ‡ŖšŸ‡ø
    Jan 16, 2021
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    ovocrew

    You too huh

    I just gotta get outta here, I can figure things out from there

  • Lightsxo 🌈
    Jan 16, 2021
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    Dr FyaskHO

    Thanks bro I really appreciate the advice. It’s funny you say that cause that’s what I’ve kinda been thinking to get over this and I’ve done a really good job the last while just doing my own thing

    I’ve just come to a point where I have no interest in the back and forth right now so I’m done. And the fact that I never replied to her is telling to me

    As for you I hope that maybe in the long run it does work out but if not someone will come along and blow that person right out of the water

    I’m technically married man but without a proper reception and s*** it’s easier to say engaged still.

    Life has a weird way of working out. If it hasn’t yet means there’s more to come. I truly mean it.

  • Jan 16, 2021

    Every girl I’ve ever liked enough to try and be serious with has had feelings for me but something keeps f***ing it up. It’s always ā€œthe wrong timeā€. Makes me wanna not even try :( It’s started to make me become this person with no feelings bc I don’t wanna get disappointed so I just block it all out

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    First Take

    It’s cause she’s saying she really likes me and we’ve already talked abt us dating. But she says she still likes some other dude and needs time lol. I know I shouldn’t even bother with this but I do like her a lot. I’m trying to still keep it an option but not get too deep to where if it doesn’t work out I start simping hard u know. But we talk everyday and it’s hard u feel

    Hmmm

    Honestly my advice play it cool and just hang out and s*** but when she broaches the subject of dating or whatever just tell her that you’re not ready until she’s fully into it. IMO when you first start seeing someone else I always just kind of assume there’s someone else or others until you’ve had an actual talk about being with each other

    And it fails, just draw her and date that version

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Jimnopsis

    Don’t talk unless she’s trying to hang out in person

    We see each other in person a lot tbh. We’re kind of in the same friend group

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Chief Julio

    I just gotta get outta here, I can figure things out from there

    When you think that’s gonna happen?

  • Jan 16, 2021
    Lightsxo

    I’m technically married man but without a proper reception and s*** it’s easier to say engaged still.

    Life has a weird way of working out. If it hasn’t yet means there’s more to come. I truly mean it.

    Damn fr? Lol well I hope that works out for you!

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    First Take

    We see each other in person a lot tbh. We’re kind of in the same friend group

    Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isn’t helping your cause. By always being there you’re making her think she doesn’t have to make a choice which is why you’re getting stuck in purgatory

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Dr FyaskHO

    Hmmm

    Honestly my advice play it cool and just hang out and s*** but when she broaches the subject of dating or whatever just tell her that you’re not ready until she’s fully into it. IMO when you first start seeing someone else I always just kind of assume there’s someone else or others until you’ve had an actual talk about being with each other

    And it fails, just draw her and date that version

    That’s what I’m trying to do rn, makes the most sense. We’ve had talks abt dating and s*** already and she told me abt the other dude but she said she would completely end it like 2 days later and I know that didn’t happen. She says the conversation didn’t go ā€œas anticipatedā€ lol

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Jimnopsis

    Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isn’t helping your cause. By always being there you’re making her think she doesn’t have to make a choice which is why you’re getting stuck in purgatory

    This too

    The moment you start to back away through text they sense it and they start freaking out lol might work to his advantage

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    ovocrew

    Bury me with my Tua jersey

    Wearing a Josh Allen jersey at your funeral

  • Jan 16, 2021
    ovocrew

    Damn y’all going thru it

  • Jan 16, 2021
    Tdot

    Wearing a Josh Allen jersey at your funeral

    I’ll haunt you

  • Jan 16, 2021

    Oh its simp hours. Ovocrew don’t respond to my last post bro

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    Jimnopsis

    Talking in person is good, but carrying out general convos via text prob isn’t helping your cause. By always being there you’re making her think she doesn’t have to make a choice which is why you’re getting stuck in purgatory

    Dam this makes sense too. What if she’s like oh u don’t even wanna talk to me I don’t think u care

  • Jan 16, 2021

    It’s cool neither of us hurting

  • Jan 16, 2021
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    First Take

    That’s what I’m trying to do rn, makes the most sense. We’ve had talks abt dating and s*** already and she told me abt the other dude but she said she would completely end it like 2 days later and I know that didn’t happen. She says the conversation didn’t go ā€œas anticipatedā€ lol

    Alright well it sounds like now it’s just all on her terms and you’re waiting for her to make a decision so I’d back off a little bit in mean time. The moment you stop giving her so much attention she might come to realize what she’d be missing. Try it for the weekend man

  • Chief Julio šŸ‡ŖšŸ‡ø
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    ovocrew

    When you think that’s gonna happen?

    Absolute latest the end of this year, can't be f***ing around

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