Was it addiction issues or anything that steered him off the good path or just complacency
he was never the smartest guy but he had the gift of gab so that he was pretty well balanced socially. he could have easily worked in silicon valley in sales or anything else as i've emphasized to "the man" in this thread many times
he ended up going to a s***ty mid tier state school where all that mattered was 4 years of partying and he played rugby so that set him on a bad path
because of his s***ty state school grades and s***ty major (accounting) he didn't get a job after uni. ended up working at a call center for multiple years until he was accepted to the union part of the electric company (where his dad also works as a lineman)
i think he just never had self confidence to step outside of his comfort zone, both of his own doing and his upbringing. plus the environment working s***ty jobs will kill dreams. irish american northeast people are emotionally abusive alcoholics who only know how to show tough love
that's why he still lives in our home city and works this "safe" job while barely being able to save money, he's scared but loyal to his evil family. his alcoholic mom died in college and he feels responsibility to his older sister and even his dad, who he doesnt even talk to, in some way i'm sure
all i wait for now is the IG message that he impregnated some ugly townie further ruining any chance of escaping his abusive cycle for good. that'll be the final chapter on what NOT to do as a stupid American
he was never the smartest guy but he had the gift of gab so that he was pretty well balanced socially. he could have easily worked in silicon valley in sales or anything else as i've emphasized to "the man" in this thread many times
he ended up going to a s***ty mid tier state school where all that mattered was 4 years of partying and he played rugby so that set him on a bad path
because of his s***ty state school grades and s***ty major (accounting) he didn't get a job after uni. ended up working at a call center for multiple years until he was accepted to the union part of the electric company (where his dad also works as a lineman)
i think he just never had self confidence to step outside of his comfort zone, both of his own doing and his upbringing. plus the environment working s***ty jobs will kill dreams. irish american northeast people are emotionally abusive alcoholics who only know how to show tough love
that's why he still lives in our home city and works this "safe" job while barely being able to save money, he's scared but loyal to his evil family. his alcoholic mom died in college and he feels responsibility to his older sister and even his dad, who he doesnt even talk to, in some way i'm sure
all i wait for now is the IG message that he impregnated some ugly townie further ruining any chance of escaping his abusive cycle for good. that'll be the final chapter on what NOT to do as a stupid American
god damn man that s*** sounds like a lot of ppl i know and it rly does suck but saving people isn’t possible sometimes unfortunately 😔
nothing you can really do besides try, otherwise they have to put the work in themselves
s*** sucks man i just want everybody i care ab to win and do great
want a jason tat so bad
should go on friday the 13th bet they got deals on em there
they do here at least, always some variant of a jason tat for F13
god damn man that s*** sounds like a lot of ppl i know and it rly does suck but saving people isn’t possible sometimes unfortunately 😔
nothing you can really do besides try, otherwise they have to put the work in themselves
s*** sucks man i just want everybody i care ab to win and do great
it's all good, some just want simple lives. it can be a lot for people to even deal with their base level existence
he was there for me a few years ago when i was down bad so i won't forget that
but to see people change up and s*** when i started getting money was so whack too
when rappers mention that i feel it so much these days
should go on friday the 13th bet they got deals on em there
they do here at least, always some variant of a jason tat for F13
The next Friday the 13th isn’t for a while tho 😩 I’m gonna get it next month I think
Crying
"RD"
it's all good, some just want simple lives. it can be a lot for people to even deal with their base level existence
he was there for me a few years ago when i was down bad so i won't forget that
but to see people change up and s*** when i started getting money was so whack too
when rappers mention that i feel it so much these days
I guess ya
you’re older than me so u know more/have more life experience but somebody not wanting better for themselves when i want the world for them is just such a s***ty feeling to me
just something Im coming to terms with I guess idk I really do care too much ab others for no reason at all


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