Why am i always beefin with people. For example i get a new job, i meet all my colleagues. I be actin extra nice n s*** like that but then these niggas start to think i am like a weak mf because i act nice and they teasin me.
End of the line is always me either screamin at them from the top of my lungs or throwin hands. Sometimes i just say s*** like lets see after work what happens.
I swear its not my fault tho they always start
You gotta be more reserved, channel your anger in other ways. Unless they're getting really disrespectful there's no reason to be challenging people to fisticuffs at the workplace. They're probably just teasing because you're new, not that you're soft
I am not an angry person ppl make me sad or frustrated but never furious. Maybe we born different....
even if they start you're too insecure to brush them off. they might not even be baiting you purposely too.. man just be yourself don't be extra nice, if they say stupid s*** you don't have to reply
I am not an angry person ppl make me sad or frustrated but never furious. Maybe we born different....
Side note: Out of all the negative emotions anger might be the most useful but deadly
Sadness basically debilitates you & frustration just enhances confusion
Anger can make some accomplish great things but also it’s super destructive if not monitored
Side note: Out of all the negative emotions anger might be the most useful but deadly
Sadness basically debilitates you & frustration just enhances confusion
Anger can make some accomplish great things but also it’s super destructive if not monitored
Cant help it . Mayb i shld get on steroids or smthin
A secure man knows in himself that he isn't weak or fragile, even if other people try to b**** him out. Its all a mentality thing
Thank you guys for all the messages. You guys are right i need to stay calm and control my anger. Maybe i use the anger in other things i dunno.
Can you give an example of a disagreement you had with a coworker?
Yes. Yesterday for example a coworker came up to me and said your machines are all on stop. I said well yes because i have to book the produced wires into the program. He then shaked his head. I swear to fod as he was turning around i was gonna punch this mf as hard as i can
Yes. Yesterday for example a coworker came up to me and said your machines are all on stop. I said well yes because i have to book the produced wires into the program. He then shaked his head. I swear to fod as he was turning around i was gonna punch this mf as hard as i can
Yeah the dudes a d***head but you don’t need to retaliate off of that. Stop reacting to people and watch how much easier and peaceful life is
apart from maintaining calm, you should not take things from work personally, it will consume you, it will make you hate your job
also what you're describing in your post are insecurities-related issues, you seem insecure about the way you believe you project your image in front of others
apart from maintaining calm, you should not take things from work personally, it will consume you, it will make you hate your job
also what you're describing in your post are insecurities-related issues, you seem insecure about the way you believe you project your image in front of others
Yes absolutely. Its even worse when i see that they only do that to me. Its not only one person. It happens every time at first they say im a nice dude but suddenly they team up and start to tease me
Yeah the dudes a d***head but you don’t need to retaliate off of that. Stop reacting to people and watch how much easier and peaceful life is
And its not only one d***head. That workplace suck ass its a gang of them all of them couldn’t do s*** to you on the street but in work because they are protected in some way. They start to f*** with you.
Im showing no reaction to them anymore.
And its not only one d***head. That workplace suck ass its a gang of them all of them couldn’t do s*** to you on the street but in work because they are protected in some way. They start to f*** with you.
Im showing no reaction to them anymore.
How so though
What do they do to f*** with you