I really feel like people have high expectations for me, and when they realize that I’m not who I really am, they push me away. Like my college “friends” say s*** to me like “You got all the hoes” and whatnot, but I’m unsure if its a joke or if they really think I got b****es. I mean I feel like a lot of girls would fwm because they stare and s***, but honestly my confidence is pretty low so I never react on these things happening.

And it feels like people just treat me differently than everyone else. I’m just an introverted ass nigga, but I feel like people just tolerate me or just act nice toward me. Anyone else?

Like I feel like people say stuff just to boost my self esteem idk

I feel exactly the same bro, them expectations be giving me anxiety.

How you deal with it?

Idrc when people say that type of stuff but it used to bother me

You just act like it's a joke

I really got nothing going for myself rn other than I’m in school. And my grades arent even that great. Like I was chasing b****es but not getting any p**** at all so I was distracted asf from the main things like getting a job etc. S*** has f***ed me up fr

I’m still trying to figure it out man. Like I got another story i’m about to tell from last night

Got ahead, im all ears.

It’s why I don’t even like meeting people bro it’s like they have expectations of me and they see I’m quite or whatever and lose interest

Ight so me and my roommate were smoking and s*** right. I was high as a kite, and when I get high, my logic goes out the window. When I talk, I just say way too much, but its all honest and genuine. So I was with my roommate right. I thought we were cool asf, so I opened up a little to this man. Basically told him I never smoked one on one with a chick (usually just drink) and this nigga busted out laughing loud asf Like I told the funniest story oat lol. Like I dont know if he was actually judging a nigga cuz of this s***, but it lowkey made me look at him differently

Especially off the fact that I’m geeked outta my mind, I felt like I said the worst thing of all time. Thats what I’m saying with the expectations, I should have hella b****es but it’s a facade and its my fault cuz I had no clue what I was doing in the past

Like I feel I’m TOO mysterious at times. But all these nights of me meeting people are ruined because I smoke weed. I really need to quit man, I have hardly had any positive experiences from smoking unless its with someone I’m close with or by myself.

Like if I’m sober or a little tipsy, the swagger and charm comes on when I enable it to. I know how to talk to women and engage with people idk cuz I’ve down it in the past, but anytime I smoke it just all goes away.

I feel the same way. It seems like i attract alot of people cause i look like a cool interesting black dude (i do dress different) but truth be told im boring very socially awkward and very private so when people approach me trying to get to know me i can tell theyre dissapointed when they see how bland i am... then they just ignore me lmao

don't give too many f***s

are u really boring? think about it a lot of people act like they live lavish or even the least bit good but it ends up they're just posing like im fr

I wouldn't even say I’m socially awkward, but some people just do not move me enough for me to actually get to know them tbh lol. Like b****es I wouldn't even consider dating approach me, and I just give em short answers and s***. Its fun, but then I miss the attention

Wym by this exactly

True but Yes my interest and life is very generic (video games, technology nerd s*** and my daily life is work go home eat and chill alone. Even on the weekends lol so i dont have anything "special" about me and i like it like that

I think your friends was studying you all along and now he knows your weak spot, your insecurites cause you told him so watch out for his intentions now that he has that "power" over you, feel me? Just act cool.

This big facts. Like I feel I dub myself a big hole because of past experiences as well. Like I should be the Mr. B****es of my school, but I’m not lol

Why its failing with them hoes?

I just feel like my time has came and went. I never had sexual relations with a girl until like 2 years ago when I was 19, and I was just a huge simp with that girl. Then ever since, I never progressed. Still doing simp s*** with each new girl that I bagged. Like I had game and could get a new chick every week, but I never did anything with it. But my time is coming again. I just need a haircut and my confidence will be flowing again. My mindset for the New Year has helped with my outlook on life.

Plus back then, I was just tryna lose my virginity. Finally did it, realized p**** and s***isnt all that, so now I’m just tryna settle down with a chick I can vibe with. But I know for a fact that if I smashed that first girl like a normal human being would have, my life would be soooo much different. Now I just feel like I’m behind. Should have 30 bodies and hoes all in my phone, but now I’m lonely and aint got s***

Other than a few details we p much the same person lmao. Pmf with confidence issues

At least you still in school tho, that's really what matter most. Like you said the time will come again