shave the hair, and figure out a new style
Terrible idea. I look worse with a buzz cut and would have way more styling options if I continue to grow it out
No bro
Terrible idea. I look worse with a buzz cut and would have way more styling options if I continue to grow it out
this could be u
Yea u ugly @op
I’ve been down insanely bad my entire adult life - can’t get any matches on tinder, women I knew from my old retail job don’t accept my follow requests, etc. I’m also tall-ish so it has to be my face holding me back
https://imgur.com/a/i2ODHBF
naw you look like a nice friendly guy
you look like someone i'd see at a concert who would ask the security guards if they can get water for someone in the crowd who passed out
good vibes
There are virtually zero opportunities for me to start conversations with women in my daily life: I just work from home, skate and go to the gym
you just answered your problem right here, you gotta start going into settings where women are looking for someone
after that, yo problem just gone be fumbling
It doesn’t seem helpful because you can’t jsut “be confident”
You have to work to develop confidence, which is clearly OPs issue
hmmmmmmm
Bro cmon, you're good looking
U def need to get your mindset straight tho
Your self esteem introduces you before you can even speak
A pretty face means nothing if you lack confidence and carry yourself like a loser
How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)
How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)
be delusional like everyone else
I'm actually unattractive/awkward looking and have been off the market for over a decade. If I looked like OP it would be a wrap for everyone else
People overhype how difficult it is to get with a girl. Just be kind and engaged with what they're saying, show interest, compliment them and you'll be good. If you're taking care of your own s***, it shouldn't matter if you're dating someone or not anyway.
How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)
Do shrooms bro I don’t know what else to tell you.
It’s all mental.
But also it’s the state of the times we’re in. A lot of young men are feeling isolated and lonely now days. Just gotta keep doing your thing, focus on developing yourself and a shorty or two will come along
Get off Tinder too. That s*** no good
Your self esteem introduces you before you can even speak
A pretty face means nothing if you lack confidence and carry yourself like a loser
Bingo. Dealing with a person wrapped in self-pity is a universally unappealing experience. And it is usually indicative of other negative personality traits.
I think it's perfectly normal for any of us to feel some insecurity from time to time, but we have to know how to deal with it in a positive and healthy way.
How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)
What do you mean you have nothing going for you? You don't have a job? Prospects? A personality? Everyone in here is saying you look just fine so you already have that going for you.