Am I ugly?

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    Mark Moschino

    shave the hair, and figure out a new style

    Terrible idea. I look worse with a buzz cut and would have way more styling options if I continue to grow it out

  • Gojira 🦖
    Sep 25, 2022

    No bro

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    Don Makaveli

    Terrible idea. I look worse with a buzz cut and would have way more styling options if I continue to grow it out

    this could be u

    tiktok.com/t/ZTRmJPMYe

  • Sep 25, 2022
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    I expected an ugly dude and was disappointed

  • Sep 25, 2022
    DVLPR

    I expected an ugly dude and was disappointed

  • Sep 25, 2022

    Yea u ugly @op

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Don Makaveli
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    I’ve been down insanely bad my entire adult life - can’t get any matches on tinder, women I knew from my old retail job don’t accept my follow requests, etc. I’m also tall-ish so it has to be my face holding me back

    https://imgur.com/a/i2ODHBF

    naw you look like a nice friendly guy

  • Sep 25, 2022

    Yes you are, I’m sorry. It’s probably your personality

  • Sep 25, 2022

    Think this is a confidence issue, you’re a handsome guy

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    you look like someone i'd see at a concert who would ask the security guards if they can get water for someone in the crowd who passed out

    good vibes

  • Sep 25, 2022

    Far from it

    No black person is ugly

    You look like that one actor Jussie Smollett

  • Sep 25, 2022

    lmao not even close to ugly

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Don Makaveli

    There are virtually zero opportunities for me to start conversations with women in my daily life: I just work from home, skate and go to the gym

    you just answered your problem right here, you gotta start going into settings where women are looking for someone

    after that, yo problem just gone be fumbling

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Cherrywine

    It doesn’t seem helpful because you can’t jsut “be confident”

    You have to work to develop confidence, which is clearly OPs issue

    hmmmmmmm

  • Sep 25, 2022
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    Jonz

    Bro cmon, you're good looking

    U def need to get your mindset straight tho

    Your self esteem introduces you before you can even speak

    A pretty face means nothing if you lack confidence and carry yourself like a loser

  • Sep 25, 2022

    no you just need to build yourself up

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    How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Don Makaveli
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    How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)

    be delusional like everyone else

  • Sep 25, 2022

    Idk is Tim Duncan ugly?

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    You do have that fluoride stare going on but you’re very handsome young man

  • Bro you look good. Maybe it's a confidence issue

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    I'm actually unattractive/awkward looking and have been off the market for over a decade. If I looked like OP it would be a wrap for everyone else

    People overhype how difficult it is to get with a girl. Just be kind and engaged with what they're saying, show interest, compliment them and you'll be good. If you're taking care of your own s***, it shouldn't matter if you're dating someone or not anyway.

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Don Makaveli

    How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)

    Do shrooms bro I don’t know what else to tell you.

    It’s all mental.

    But also it’s the state of the times we’re in. A lot of young men are feeling isolated and lonely now days. Just gotta keep doing your thing, focus on developing yourself and a shorty or two will come along

    Get off Tinder too. That s*** no good

  • Sep 25, 2022
    Squilliam

    Your self esteem introduces you before you can even speak

    A pretty face means nothing if you lack confidence and carry yourself like a loser

    Bingo. Dealing with a person wrapped in self-pity is a universally unappealing experience. And it is usually indicative of other negative personality traits.

    I think it's perfectly normal for any of us to feel some insecurity from time to time, but we have to know how to deal with it in a positive and healthy way.

  • Sep 25, 2022
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    Don Makaveli

    How do you develop confidence when you have nothing going for you? Low self esteem is just a natural response to getting consistent negative feedback from people (e.g. indifference, ghosting, being left on read, etc.)

    What do you mean you have nothing going for you? You don't have a job? Prospects? A personality? Everyone in here is saying you look just fine so you already have that going for you.

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