My dad ran away a long time ago but now that he got old af sometimes calls like its supposed to be all good, be tryna tell me off for not calling more even though he the one that left, dude acts like I owe him something even though he did literally nothing a dad is supposed to do my mom says to forgive him but its very hard since he goes against everything I stand for

You don't owe that man anything...

Hating your dad just gonna make you gay bro (no disrespect to gay fam I love y’all) but either hit him up and get that s*** off your chest or cut him off.

Either way it’s gonna be hard for you to respect yourself if you hold onto this vitriol instead of acting on it. Trust me man getting that s*** off ya chest to his face, or over the phone, gonna feel like a weight been lifted. Wish you the best

You dont have to forgive him but maybe keep in contact because if he dies you dont want to end up regretting not gives the relationship a chance. If he did walk out and is now complaining you dont give him enough time then minimal contact does sound best

youre not wrong but hate takes up a lot of energy.

forgiving him will free you

you dont owe anyone s***. f*** him

just don't let it consume you. you don't gotta forgive him but just make peace with the fact he been a deadbeat and move on.

Hating anyone is just going to be harmful to your own health. He’s not entitled to your love but find forgiveness for your own sake and not his.

just get to a point where you either dont care anymore or it gives you positive vibes. if you can find a way to connect with him that makes you feel good, do it

Lmfao the first sentence

Lmfao that s*** facts tho. He gonna always be subconsciously seeking that fatherly validation from other men. It’s just psychology

Imagine being this ignorant lmaoo

Please breakdown in an actual thought out argument how anything I just said was objectively incorrect

dam that second sentence a good one

exactly why i put this ignorant mf on ignore

You don't owe HIM anything, but if it's something you eventually want to get past, you owe it to YOURSELF to attempt to develop some kind of relationship with your father and reconcile whatever grievances you have as a result of his absence.

Not like staying bitter towards him forever is gonna do you any good.

So everyone that has a bad relationship with their father is sexually attracted to men?

At this point its kinda entertaining to see what he can come up with lmaoo

No but if you internalize it and don’t face it head on then probably yes

If you got a toxic mom it’s gonna f*** up your relationships with women. You don’t think a bad dad has the same effect? Use your common sense not everything is some mean words tryna offend yo soft ass. Some things are just facts of life

no

Icemane please

Wtf guys i was just looking at my threads, this was posted on march 9th 2020, my dad died exactly one year later.

You're a pathological liar we don't believe you