Me and him fell out over some really bad s***, basically him abusing and condoning others abuse of women, but we were friends for years and his younger brother passed

idk how to really feel, im heartbroken but i dont want to be friends with him again

How do I go about reaching out, is it even appropriate for me to reach out?

I’m sorry mate, truly I am.

I would give them a bit of time before hitting them up personally. But don’t wait too long

Sorry for your loss. Just send your condolences and wish him well since you used to be close. You don’t have to be friends with him again to do that.

Your brother should always be more important than randoms bro

What?

Reread OP

Just reach out and give your condolences

I don’t know why it feels sort of inappropriate to do given the state of our relationship

How long should I wait?

I mean like...just send your condolences and leave it at that?

Why u mad what he do in his free time

Bro you’re really weird for trolling about this but whatever

I did why would u cut all ties cause of that just teach

Reach out to they moms or pops

If you feel like it would upset him don’t do anything

Niggas in an awful spot rn probably no reason to add to it

u arent obligated to do anything if u feel its necessary id just say sorry for your loss that was the homie or something along those lines but u rly dont have to say anything

If you were a woman abuser and your brother passed would you want an old friend to send you condolences?

this

and niggas will think that your just saying it to make urself feel better/seem like a good person

See this is what I’m thinking, I feel like people are oversimplifying it

I don’t wanna add any negative feelings to an already f***ed up situation but I don’t want it to come off like idc

Not trolling but ok if u don’t want my advice do what the f*** u want and keep acting like people can’t make mistakes

Well I’m not a woman abuser so I don’t know

bro u are a f***ing weirdo, f*** u fr

The person who was abused is like my best friend in the world

Why? You ain't have weird history with the younger brother lol

We just ended on bad terms obviously so idk if me messaging him is gonna help anything

Honestly I don’t know his parents