Nov 9, 2022·1 replyYes marry her
You will spend less time worrying and thinking about p****Less distractions
- Nov 9, 2022
taskforcesector6Parents had me late 30s (or at least 1 was), turned out ok thankfully. Unless you can blame that for my high level of non facial/body symmetry, dsypraxia, cowlick in fringe, flat feet and/or accessory navicular syndrome
This was funny
Nov 9, 2022SepahThis girl who I’ve been friends with since a kid and kinda dated in high school had her father send a marriage proposal to me. I’m not opposed to marrying her in general she’s great but realistically we’re both in university and are relatively broke. However I am still seriously considering it. Thoughts?
Do a nikah it doesn't hurt
- Nov 9, 2022taskforcesector6
Parents had me late 30s (or at least 1 was), turned out ok thankfully. Unless you can blame that for my high level of non facial/body symmetry, dsypraxia, cowlick in fringe, flat feet and/or accessory navicular syndrome
Lmfao
plants 🌻Nov 9, 2022
americanaA lot of reproductive processes decay with age
As a result, genetic conditions like Down syndrome occur in older parents
its lowkey a f***in miracle that i aint got some developmental issues in some way since my mom was 43 and my dad 45 when i was born
Nov 9, 2022
TheRocket64Zero advantages of marrying younger tbh
You'll be in your kids life for longer and they wont feel as much pressure to take care of you when they're graduate. The disadvantages do seem to outweigh these though
Nov 9, 2022·1 replyMore energy to ply with your kids
Feel like you missed out on youth maybe
Nov 9, 2022there are advantages and disadvantages
both can be more or less depening on your situation, wants/values & personality
just like almost anything
- Nov 9, 2022TheRocket64
Zero advantages of marrying younger tbh
this is a lie
marriage benefits financially in work and govt forums is one which can help a lot
- Nov 9, 2022COWBOY WAYNE
More energy to ply with your kids
Feel like you missed out on youth maybeyeah if you have kids early when married early you can also see your grandkids way longer, maybe even great depending
thats the main benefit imo
Nov 9, 2022SepahThis girl who I’ve been friends with since a kid and kinda dated in high school had her father send a marriage proposal to me. I’m not opposed to marrying her in general she’s great but realistically we’re both in university and are relatively broke. However I am still seriously considering it. Thoughts?
What's that dowry looking like?
- plants 🌻Nov 9, 2022·1 reply
for the F*** Them Kids types like me n my wife the advantage of marrying early is that we get to spend even longer madly in love together
Nov 9, 2022SepahThis girl who I’ve been friends with since a kid and kinda dated in high school had her father send a marriage proposal to me. I’m not opposed to marrying her in general she’s great but realistically we’re both in university and are relatively broke. However I am still seriously considering it. Thoughts?
Honestly maybe growing through struggles as a unit.
Also getting used to only one persons s***.
I’m thinking for the best tho
- Nov 9, 2022Fire Lord
Yes marry her
You will spend less time worrying and thinking about p****Less distractions
- Nov 9, 2022
RRRBBBMarriage is a commitment and you just said you're broke
- Nov 9, 2022
Y’all shouldn’t be marrying/having kids in this crisis
- OPNov 9, 2022·1 replyplants
I got married when I was 23 @op what do you wanna know
Just spill anything you think would be useful
- OPNov 9, 2022·1 reply
ZokkonNeed to know more about why her father sent that proposal, do you come from a background where this is common?
Cultural thing
- OPNov 9, 2022
EinfinetWhat’s the dowry looking like?
Just wants to marry me she isn’t even asking for anything
- Nov 9, 2022·1 replySepah
Cultural thing
I mean if you're in a position to say no then I think it's the safer route but also if you intend to find marriage this way she actually sounds better than someone that's more of a stranger
Have you talked to the chick about it? Sorry I don't know how to navigate this type of situation so im just speaking from my perspective
Is it possible to "test the waters" via just dating again for now?
6isco 🦈Nov 9, 2022op making her bend the knee
- OPNov 9, 2022·1 replyZokkon
I mean if you're in a position to say no then I think it's the safer route but also if you intend to find marriage this way she actually sounds better than someone that's more of a stranger
Have you talked to the chick about it? Sorry I don't know how to navigate this type of situation so im just speaking from my perspective
Is it possible to "test the waters" via just dating again for now?
She wants me to marry her for a variety of reasons. 1. Because we’ve been in and off forever 2. Because her dad is abusive and won’t let her leave home without getting married
Nov 9, 2022·1 replySepahShe wants me to marry her for a variety of reasons. 1. Because we’ve been in and off forever 2. Because her dad is abusive and won’t let her leave home without getting married
Oh s***
Do you find her attractive and loving enough to be the woman you’ll settle for for the rest of your life?- OPNov 9, 2022·2 repliesrather late
Oh s***
Do you find her attractive and loving enough to be the woman you’ll settle for for the rest of your life?10/10 bad b****. Also we’ve shared so many moments together already both romantically and platonically so yea I definitely would
- Nov 9, 2022Sepah
10/10 bad b****. Also we’ve shared so many moments together already both romantically and platonically so yea I definitely would
Damn than maybe you should do it