No you're weird, mostly an a****** but also just dumb for not understanding that ppl might feel differently in social interactions than yourself

It's called empathy, be better

yeah fr, i empathize with op

Yes

I dread it cuz of it not the next day

i dont like going out more than once a week that s*** is draining fr, on my mental and on my wallet

You are rationalizing absolute nonsense man but if validation from other hermits online makes you feel better go off

Real s*** @op its eat or be eaten. Learn to get out your comfort zone. I did the whole "social anxiety" thing too when i was younger and it got me nowhere. It wasnt until i stopped gaf that i really started being myself

Dont let these dudes try to tell you this mentality is beneficial for you

Dude everyone feels that way. Grow up. If you can’t handle being social then don’t. Drinks some coffee or snort some snow if you need the energy

It's not rationalization

Who said it's beneficial 😂😂😂, I literally told him how I came social anxiety myself and how he could do it

All you did was put him down to feel better about yourself

Bully behavior

Yup

No dread when I’m about to interact w/ people I vibe with but I do get drained

I just like my space, a lot

Social expectations are a b****! But I play the game when I have to cause I’m stuck on this god forsaken planet!

Mentality of a sociopath. Society is more than this lmao, I may be socially awkward and anxious but I'm still confident in myself in certain aspects, strong, and working towards success.

we're living in a simulation everyone is a bot

I keep to myself but I find social engagements energizing usually, never rly noticed a recoil effect

Yeah wow this is me, especially when I go out and drink but any social interaction really. I hate myself the next day and sometimes they stick in my mind for a while

Im always embarrassed it’s like a perpetual thing

real

Who’s saying it’s beneficial lmao

work on not giving a f*** about other peoples opinions and also addressing whatever makes u do awkward s*** in the first place

if you dont do awkward s*** and you do this even when you have a good night with no weird s*** happening then maybe just accept that you arent meant to be social like that and stop tryna force it.

but there's probably a root cause ur dancing around

yeah
it's weird because I do really want to be social more it's just so draining

you know i used to feel this way op but then i stopped giving a f*** and i have a great time now