thinking about doing this tbh

i left the city i grew up in like 5 yrs ago to go to university and it was fun at first.

now everything feels boring and im tired all the time. idk what to do really. im tired of uni im tired of my job im tired of my studio appartement and im tired of most of the people around here

im thinking of just quitting everything and moving somewhere else and starting all over again. i dont really know what i wanna do job or study wise but i feel like im wasting my time rn and i want to experience something new

anyone of yall ever did something like this? like just quit everything and move to another city / country and start a new life? how did it go?

sounds like a great idea in the middle of a pandemic :

i mean the pandemic is everywhere so does it really matter where i go

are you going to do this every time you get bored

why not?

Idk just doesn’t seem sustainable to me.

But I mean do whatever you feel is right, just take precautions to make sure you’re secure finically and what not

yeah and I found out when your problems are internal u cant run away from em you'll just be stuck in a new place with no one to go to and the crushing loneliness is unbearable
i ended up back home and have been working on myself through reading philosophy, exercising, helping others, and therapy

Tried to do this to get away from the fam and moved across the country but ended up missing my friends too much and came back

damn

do you think it’s possible to make yourself realize this beforehand, or is it something you have to learn by experience? kind of going through the same thing and even though i logically get that there’s no easy fix, i can’t make myself really swallow the pill

tbh i kind of got this idea through reading philosophy / existentialism.

i feel like ive bound myself to this life that is ultimately boring to me and makes me feel tired and not alive. because of social bonds and financial responsibilities, when in reality i could just leave tomorrow and do something else entirely

theres a lot u can do to change your life while living in the same city before u decide to ditch everyone ur close with
i would do some real introspection and journaling and try and find out what the root of your problem is and then go from there

its not so simple

All the f***ing time.

Feels great to just leave a place and move to a new state with friends/family.

But make sure you have friends/family and make sure you can always go back home.

Ive started over so many times this last decade

Since 2010 (I was 18 years old) ive lived in
Raleigh North Carolina 3/4 times
Hampton Virgina
Dallas Texas
Atlanta Georgia
Hattiesburg Mississippi
St Petersburg Florida 2 times
Spring Hill FL 3 times

Haven't regretted a single move

Got some great job experience
Made some great friends
Met women who I would've never dreamed of talking to let alone sleep with

And whenever you go back home you're like a hometown legend. You're the one who jumped off the porch and enjoyed their f***ing life

After mfers ain't seen you in years they give you the most passionate hugs

it doesnt even feel like i would be leaving anything behind really, i already "ditched" my family when i moved to another city in the first place and i only got like 1 maybe 2 people around here that i would consider to be real friends of mine so does it really matter if im lonely here or lonely in a new place?
it just feels like the identity that i built up for myself around here sucks and i want to get a new chance at life and go somewhere where nobody knows me so i can start over again

Wait..... I didn't read the op. How much uni you got left? If it's like a year or 2 then finish it out.

TRUST ME. Don't stop. A lot of times when ppl stop school they don't follow up and finish it out.

The last thing you want is feeling unfulfilled 10 years down the road

and im saying nothing is going to change
you'll still have the same problems just in a different city

Go on tagged. com and go get some easy sex. Might make you feel better

Warning: the site used to be goat but now it's full of fat chicks, prostitutes, and transexuals..... But it's easy p****. And you might get lucky and snag a baddie

tbh maybe i just need to f*** some broad been a while since i had s***

F*** a few. Make you feel better

How many years of uni you got?

technically i got one year left but i been so lazy this year ill probably have to do 2 until i get my degree

Feel the same way OP

Aint got much holding me here either, when the opportunity arrives ima take it

whats the oppurtunity youre waiting for? like a new job or something?

Yes exactly, need a good basis to start from