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  • Feb 11, 2020
    RX Nigerian Pastor

    Tbh you’re right I think I’m just trippin off some s*** and it’s making me feel a certain way for some reason...

    Gonna try to be more positive and see where that gets me

    That's the spirit

    Also, if you dont do it already - start working out (lifting, running, biking, whatever). Trust me, it will help you feel better.

  • Feb 11, 2020
    Kossisko

    I seen dudes with serious deformities coupled with severe pain day in day out manage to hold on to their smile from sunrise to sunset. These are people dealt a bad hand. Seeing s*** like that completely changed my perspective.

    That's not to discount anybody's struggle but when u see strangers smile u don't know what they been thru. A lot of people in my life see me as a super happy super jovial person when they don't know a single thing I've been thru. There are people who've been dealt a "better hand" and are miserable.

    It's not the hand ur dealt it's how u play.

    All facts. I feel like at one point or another, life will test all of us. But we must not falter when that time comes.

  • Feb 11, 2020

    Relax , light up a nice blunt , and find solutions to these problems . Everything gon be fine op . Trus the process

  • Feb 11, 2020
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    Not about the cards you get dealt, it's about how you play your hand. Improve the state of your mind to improve the state of your reality.

  • Feb 12, 2020
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    WESTSIDE

    Not about the cards you get dealt, it's about how you play your hand. Improve the state of your mind to improve the state of your reality.

    Thoughts become Reality .

  • Feb 12, 2020

    Pray bro

  • Feb 12, 2020

    chess, not checkers

  • Feb 12, 2020

    Shouldn't have chose life on hard mode

  • Feb 12, 2020

    U young b life is tough for a young one but u will be fine as long as u stay focused on the long term

  • Feb 12, 2020

    self pity will get you nowhere my love

  • Feb 13, 2020
    ANTI

    When I was a kid my two biggest fears were my house burning down and my mom dying at a young age, both of those things happened before I turned 20 and for the longest time I felt like I was perpetually cursed.

    Now, at 24, my life still ain't s*** but I realize a lot of it is my own doing and that I'm still blessed with a lot, maybe even too much as I think that having an excess of certain things has contributed to the rut that I'm in. Plus, I know there will always be someone worse off than me.

    But, lord willing I still got about 60 years to turn this around

    Real s*** family

  • As long as youre still breathing theres hope

  • Feb 13, 2020

    Yh

  • Feb 17, 2020
    kanyemusic

    Thoughts become Reality .

    Indeed they do. "The All is Mind; The Universe is Mental."

  • Feb 17, 2020

    yea but what can we do other than try to get out of it we just gotta keep pushing bro

  • Feb 17, 2020

    success feels so much better when you struggle through the process

  • Feb 17, 2020
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    The Lord works in mysterious ways

  • Feb 17, 2020

    this guy @VII

  • Psychodrama

    The Lord works in mysterious ways

    Bless up!

  • Feb 17, 2020
    Ooo

    Do you ever not s***post

    s***posting is life.

  • Feb 17, 2020

    Paused at college

    Boiii do I have news for u OP

  • Feb 17, 2020
    RX Nigerian Pastor

    Most people I meet are happy and have no problems

    I think this is something that you just can’t know for sure tho.

    If u met me at uni or into my mid 20s you might think the same, I’ve always had friends, girlfriends, done well(ish) academically and now have moved into a good job. Even going back further had a stable childhood (if not necessarily a happy one) where while certainly wasn’t rich never had to worry about basic financial security or lack of material possessions.

    The reality behind that tho is having almost 10 yrs of on/off mental health problems that at times have been bad enough that just going to the local corner shop is a massive ordeal for months/weeks on end. Let alone being completely unable to do certain things I love e.g. going to concerts.

    I’ve been in the position ur describing of feeling like why is this happening to me, and being even jealous/resentful of seeing people of a simile age going about enjoying their lives while I just can’t. But at the end of the day u gotta question why these things happen (where u can), how you can avoid them or resolve them.

    Key starting point for me would be u saying “people hate u”. U can’t please everyone and some people seem unfortunately more prone to being disliked/bullied etc. But often there will be some of your own actions and behaviours contributing to people not liking you, so maybe some self reflection is needed

  • Feb 17, 2020
    RX Nigerian Pastor

    Most people I meet are happy and have no problems

    Most people don’t tell you about their problems*. Keep your head up King and recalibrate yourself. You need a shift in your perspective because it’s all temporary and how long your situation remains the same is something you have some level of control over luckily.