An old friend of mine turned 20 today and i was like damn we met when you were like 17 but now we donāt talk as much anymore compared to then
Itās like damn time is crazy šŖ
It only gets worse through your 20s. For the most part distance with your childhood friends spreads even more, people you never talked to in high school become more friendly on social media, and you meet a random group of friends who become your new circle by your mid 20s.
It bothers me and doesnāt simultaneously. There were people I was significantly close to since middle school who switched up by our junior year of HS. Old friends being too good to speak or acting like they donāt know you out of judgement if you arenāt in the same place as them career wise, etc. that kind of s*** makes me mad because I have crazy good memories with people who think Iām less than s*** now I never had a bad altercation with. We just fell apart. On the flip side to this a lot of people go down dark ass paths and itās for the better Iām distanced from them but it doesnāt mean I donāt miss them either.