Living with my mom turns me into a big nag. She does things u wouldnt even think twice about weirdly for no reason

I bought a cake earlier, she took a piece and left the cover half open. I try to explain the cover is resealable for a reason u cant just let air into it, it’s gonna spoil. Then she starts yelling and at that point it’s like sinkhole becuase she draws u in. It’s so maddening, like bro please just listen so we can understand each other.

Same s*** with some hotdogs I bought, they came in a resealable bag cus of air and instead of opening it that way she pokes a f***ing hole in the side w a knife s*** like this just gets me

That alone is fine, im not like an a****** it’s more so the fact she is INCAPABLE of taking responsibility she starts f***ing yelling and then she makes the same mistake

Like she got her own little quirks (way more unreasonable tbh, s*** like dont leave toothpaste on the “wrong” Side of the sink. Im not a hypocrite so I cant say i follow them all 100% but i make a legit effort to absorb the info and f***ing TRY

Anyway i hate this feeling of having to be “that” person, im really f***ing easy going. Living w her just tests limits i never knew i had man

We got some avocados, usually u cut it in half so another person can easily scoop the other half out and use it. She cuts hers in like a f***ing prism so it’s impossible to get the other half out and i wasted 30 seconds only to mash all the avocado on my fingers and cut a WHOLE new one like bruh

This is basic s*** in my mind, lmk if i am being a b****

Cant wait till im 21 so i ca move

sounds irritating but it's probably not worth arguing about

I hate 95% of this s*** my mom does or says but i would still kill someone for her

Yes to title or me being a b****

I try man but i dnt even be coming to her w anger

I ask in the calmest way then she starts bickering back

I changed my post but to answer your question

Yes I do hate who I become with some people especially at work but sometimes you have to be someone you’re not to play the game of life

Ye mine too for sure

She been thru a lot and I really want her to kno I empathize and dnt mind it’s just the fact she starts yelling and cant handle anything

This is a smart lady, college degree, masters everything

Also ties into fact our relationship is s*** in other ways. So things like this tends to get blown up cus of other stuff. Unfortunately we dnt hv that blank slate

what's the movie in your avatar

In the long run, appreciate your moms. They're there for you at times you would never except them to be.

American psycho

Reminds me of my dad. He acts like everyone thinks like him, and gets mad when no, we don’t all leave the milk out, or leave our dishes in the sink.

Worst part is that the only thing that seems to work is ignoring him, but then he gets all guilt ridden and follows you around but doesn’t fix his behavior

For sure

I got my own problems

I need to fix on learning how to just let it go and ignore it

For sure i still luv and respect her but unfortunate trauma and life has made us do horrible things to each other so in a sense the relationship is fundamentally broken on that level but ill always empathize w her

Living with my dad is the most toxic s*** in the world for me

Leaving milk out would get me so irritated lmaoo

In what ways bro

dunno what it is about becoming a parent that just makes people lose it

like no way they were like this when they were younger

Gotta stick with family, even if they stick a knife in a resealable bag

I really hate how 2 of my best friends become when they hang out with certain people. Lowkey on some The Art of Peer Pressure by Kendrick Lamar s***.

Personally I got a problem with my brother cause we just dont get along sadly. Always defensive despite having no reason to fight.