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  • BVL

    imagine not letting them approach you first

  • Melz ⚜️
    Jul 23, 2024
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    KING SPAWN

    the only ladies u can meet are mutuals through family/friends/coworkers/teammates or w.e

    but that's all lmao if u don't know her at all ur toast don't even bother

    Maybe if u have no game lol

  • Jul 23, 2024
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    Melz

    Maybe if u have no game lol

    but u still need game when it comes to mutuals

    the amount of game u need to approach random ladies in 2024 is craaazy

  • Jul 23, 2024
    KING SPAWN

    but u still need game when it comes to mutuals

    the amount of game u need to approach random ladies in 2024 is craaazy

    You don’t need game you just need to be willing to laugh at yourself. I might just take the train somewhere and I’ll make a comment to 5 different strangers before I even get to my destination. But I understand why you think it’s impossible I can’t imagine like a normal square guy to do this I just dont gaf

  • Jul 23, 2024
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    KING SPAWN

    but u still need game when it comes to mutuals

    the amount of game u need to approach random ladies in 2024 is craaazy

    You don’t need game bruh just look decent and have a f***ing job lol and a car

  • Jul 23, 2024
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    Type s***

  • Jul 23, 2024
    Sell

    You don’t need game bruh just look decent and have a f***ing job lol and a car

    I’ve literally gone up to girls and not said a word just to be funny with myself and they giggle and I still get their info and these guys are saying “you can’t approach girls unless you have insane game just stick to your mutuals” 😂

  • Melz ⚜️
    Jul 23, 2024
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    KING SPAWN

    but u still need game when it comes to mutuals

    the amount of game u need to approach random ladies in 2024 is craaazy

    I promise u that isn’t true

    Women are people just ask a question or make a comment and if ur not a weirdo they will talk to u

    Maybe don’t cold approach random ass women in public but start easy with talking to women that are at the same establishment as you

  • Jul 23, 2024
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    Men are the one's who should pursue.

    Yeah, it's always nice when the women come to us, but 90% of the time, we have to go and get it.

    This is nothing new.

  • BLACK
    Jul 23, 2024
    Bernie X

    Type s***

    ?

  • BLACK
    Jul 23, 2024

    @op is gay

  • Jul 23, 2024
    Melz

    I promise u that isn’t true

    Women are people just ask a question or make a comment and if ur not a weirdo they will talk to u

    Maybe don’t cold approach random ass women in public but start easy with talking to women that are at the same establishment as you

    same establishment? well yeah for sure like seeing someone passing by at college or if u work retail and u see the same customer a few times or vice versa lol

  • Jul 24, 2024

    @op with the reverse psychology trick cause this might lowkey be the 1st somewhat productive life sxn thread dealing with talking to women.

  • Jul 24, 2024
    Gelik

    i do bartending at night i see all the thirsty (no pun) niggas in action

    I see what u talking bout actually

  • Jul 24, 2024
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    hybrid supreme

    ok i actually agree with this though, you gotta put in a lil work though

    Mixers based around things/activities you like >>>>> regular bar night just cause it’s automatically expected you socializing so you’re in an environment where nobody’s hostile to you striking up a conversation

    People watching at the club/bar when you sober & legit just there to enjoy the music (by yourself or with the homies) is lowkey a GOAT activity.

    You hear and see so much s***, that would make yo mama cringe.

    @op is actually valid in this aspect. All my friends that bartend have had the most hilarious stories.

    That being said, you + some others itt been dropping gems lemme pick those up

  • Jul 24, 2024

    This is what I like about Z-ro's music... reframing being awkward and not talking to people or approaching them as something cool. One deep for life

  • Jul 24, 2024

    I will say (as a musician) some occupations approaching within your field is 110% risky af.

    Highly wouldn’t recommend just cause some local scenes be small asf

  • Jul 24, 2024
    so much pain

    it ain’t safe being a woman and it’s hard to be a man

  • Jul 24, 2024
    so much pain

    it ain’t safe being a woman and it’s hard to be a man

    Song of the year ong

  • Jul 24, 2024

    couple obvious pointers if u cold approaching as common sense isn't that common never approach women with children, never approach at night/dark after 8pm depends where u live, never approach in secluded areas or places if she feels comfortable she just cant walk away i.e transport, work, gym etc. and always be respectful and if she say maybe/no/i'm not sure (basically anything that's not 'yes') say have a great day and go about your day

  • Jul 24, 2024
    DaeHan

    Men are the one's who should pursue.

    Yeah, it's always nice when the women come to us, but 90% of the time, we have to go and get it.

    This is nothing new.

    cant wait til 2037 when this changes