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  • Updated Jul 16, 2023

    I’m not rich and think it’s backwards to flex designer pieces when I don’t even have a car or my own apartment (although I live in NYC to be fair) and don’t feel comfortable splurging on food, travel or bottle service at a club

  • Jul 16, 2023
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    Seems like your shame is very deeply rooted. you deserve so much better for yourself. Allow yourself to enjoy the things you like without an ounce of guilt. Shame and guilt will actually eat you alive. It'll take time but you have to just stop giving a hoot what others think of you and truly live for yourself. Cheers!

  • Jul 17, 2023

    It’s a hobby just enjoy it ! Everyone is on different paths in their life and doing s*** differently. Four years ago I was poor ass college student and I would spend my small paychecks on s*** on Grailed while I was in a s***ty dorm lol. It probably looked backwards to ppl but whatever lol, everyone has something they spend too much money on, ours is just looking fly when we go out

  • Jul 17, 2023
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    As long as you’re making more money than you’re spending you shouldn’t have to be self-conscious.

    I understand the feeling of spending money on ‘useless’ and relatively expensive clothes whilst not owning an apartment (or car) in a major city, but I’d rather rent an apartment here than live in a purchased home in a small town during this phase of my life. Plus, the extra money I’d save if I were not to buy clothes wouldn’t make a difference anyway, because housing is ridiculous even outside of cities.

  • Jul 17, 2023

    its drip or drown

  • Jul 17, 2023
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    Well good, bottle service is stupid

  • Jul 17, 2023

    Damn ur just like me!

  • Jul 17, 2023

    Member since 2023

  • Jul 17, 2023

    no

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  • Jul 17, 2023

    worry about what people think but know you can't do anything about it and don't let it affect you

  • Jul 18, 2023
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    argew

    As long as you’re making more money than you’re spending you shouldn’t have to be self-conscious.

    I understand the feeling of spending money on ‘useless’ and relatively expensive clothes whilst not owning an apartment (or car) in a major city, but I’d rather rent an apartment here than live in a purchased home in a small town during this phase of my life. Plus, the extra money I’d save if I were not to buy clothes wouldn’t make a difference anyway, because housing is ridiculous even outside of cities.

    “Fuck it we ball (responsibly)” type energy 😎

  • Jul 18, 2023
    Flaxx

    Well good, bottle service is stupid

  • Jul 18, 2023

    No, not anymore

    Some of my less fashion-forward friends sometimes throw light shade saying things like “function over fashion 🤓”

    But everyone in the room knows they’re just coping

  • Jul 18, 2023

    like others already said, as long as ur having fun and financially responsible you deserve to indulge a lil, its a hobby after all :)

  • Jul 18, 2023
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    HXNS

    Seems like your shame is very deeply rooted. you deserve so much better for yourself. Allow yourself to enjoy the things you like without an ounce of guilt. Shame and guilt will actually eat you alive. It'll take time but you have to just stop giving a hoot what others think of you and truly live for yourself. Cheers!

    i get what you saying but op is legit telling us he doesn’t want to splurge until he gets to where he wants to be which is good discipline lol

  • Jul 18, 2023

    this has nothing to do with fashion...and everything to do with your lack of self worth and low confidence #SS

  • Jul 18, 2023
    slime wrld

    i get what you saying but op is legit telling us he doesn’t want to splurge until he gets to where he wants to be which is good discipline lol

    Yeh I got a little deep huh hahahaha I was having a moment

  • Jul 18, 2023
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    Nope. Scared money don’t make money. Dress For the job you want. CEO mentality everyday. I just spent my last dollars on a bottle of Creed.

  • Jul 18, 2023
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    Sigmund Freud

    Nope. Scared money don’t make money. Dress For the job you want. CEO mentality everyday. I just spent my last dollars on a bottle of Creed.

    Sigma grindset stoic christain bale in american psycho model citizen right here

  • Jul 19, 2023
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    slime wrld

    Sigma grindset stoic christain bale in american psycho model citizen right here

    #FREETATE

  • Jul 19, 2023
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    Sigmund Freud

    #FREETATE

    that bottle of creed more smokey or pineapple?

  • Jul 19, 2023
    slime wrld

    that bottle of creed more smokey or pineapple?

    Smell like money to me, I got a Brunello Cucunelli iPhone Case

  • Jul 20, 2023

    bottle service is embarrassing tbf