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  • Went on a date with a girl who I really got along with last Friday. We agreed to go on a date this upcoming Saturday. In the past she responded to my texts hours after reading them. She primarily uses Snapchat to communicate (which I don鈥檛 have) and is admittedly a bad texter. But she wanted to remind me of our date this week. I did yesterday and now I鈥檓 left on read. I can鈥檛 tell if she just doesn鈥檛 feel the need to respond or is ghosting. Hasn鈥檛 unmatched me on Hinge. Hoping we go out again.

  • Aug 4
    2 replies

    Text her:

    Hello?

    Hello????

  • Listening young fella, some people are absolutely bad texters. This is true, but if you have really piqued their interest and there鈥檚 a strong attraction they will always respond in a timely manner or at least within a days time.

    This not to say they鈥檙e not interested if their not responding frequently. It could also mean they鈥檙e nervous or waiting to get to know you more before making you a daily part of their life. It might just take more time and more frequent face-to-face interactions.

  • Aug 4
    1 reply
    Equifax

    Text her:

    Hello?

    Hello????

    Do not do this

    Text "pls respond" instead

  • everyone in my family is like this

    my mom doesnt even respond to my texts

    maybe ur girl out here getting money

  • Aug 4
    1 reply

    you were ghosted

    context doesn鈥檛 matter

  • Scratchin Mamba 鈿掞笍
    Aug 4
    1 reply

    I talk to girls then forget they exist if ion like em enough

    Nothing personal tho

  • lil ufo 馃浉
    Aug 4

    well you got 2 options now
    1. text her a 'whats up' or something
    2. dont text her until she texts back

  • Aug 4
    2 replies

    Just hit her the day of on some 鈥渟o we still chillin or what?鈥 If they reply cool if they don鈥檛 cool, y鈥檃ll be overthinking lol

  • Aug 4
    3 replies

    Charge it 2 da game

  • Scratchin Mamba

    I talk to girls then forget they exist if ion like em enough

    Nothing personal tho

  • p apollo

    Charge it 2 da game

  • Oh no

  • I always assume they ghosted for my own sake and treat every text as if they won鈥檛 respond to it. Let them either explain themselves or not if it takes hours to get back to me

  • Aug 4
    2 replies

    Why y鈥檃ll still texting these girls once you get outta the initial stage? Your immediate goal should be to FaceTime/call. Chemistry is built vocally

    Simply texting on snap is only permissible when it comes to sexting/planning to f***

  • Troy Ave Stan

    Just hit her the day of on some 鈥渟o we still chillin or what?鈥 If they reply cool if they don鈥檛 cool, y鈥檃ll be overthinking lol

  • Troy Ave Stan

    Just hit her the day of on some 鈥渟o we still chillin or what?鈥 If they reply cool if they don鈥檛 cool, y鈥檃ll be overthinking lol

  • Aug 4
    edited

    you're overthinking it. Be like water. If it's meant to be, the date will happen. Just follow up the morning of to see if it's still going down. She probably doesn't feel the need to put as much effort into texting since the first date already happened. Most people are bad texters and hate small talk convos.

  • Tribe

    Do not do this

    Text "pls respond" instead

    Love your avi btw

  • If you have to guess..

  • Tadow 馃
    Aug 4
    3 replies

    Snapchat as a primary means of communication?

  • observe

    Went on a date with a girl who I really got along with last Friday. We agreed to go on a date this upcoming Saturday. In the past she responded to my texts hours after reading them. She primarily uses Snapchat to communicate (which I don鈥檛 have) and is admittedly a bad texter. But she wanted to remind me of our date this week. I did yesterday and now I鈥檓 left on read. I can鈥檛 tell if she just doesn鈥檛 feel the need to respond or is ghosting. Hasn鈥檛 unmatched me on Hinge. Hoping we go out again.

    no such thing as a bad texter

    if she's busy she's busy

    if she's hoeing around, you will eventually find out

    advice I would give any man romantically is don't tolerate disrespect from women early on just because they're a pretty girl. women string men along and keep them in their back pocket shuffling through cards. don't stress yourself over someone who treats you like their last option

  • Tadow

    Snapchat as a primary means of communication?

    @observe
    yeah thats a red flag, thots love snapchat

    I haven't used snap since 2016

  • BRAVE the BOLD

    Why y鈥檃ll still texting these girls once you get outta the initial stage? Your immediate goal should be to FaceTime/call. Chemistry is built vocally

    Simply texting on snap is only permissible when it comes to sexting/planning to f***

    so many unspoken rules to dating

  • Tadow

    Snapchat as a primary means of communication?

    i got news for my brother