didn’t think i was boring I just be chillin bro. 9-5 ,back 2 school full time(failing lol always beat from work) buy clothes (i be dressin fr) and play the p5 bro I’m comfy lol. don’t mind going out for a drink here and there but I don’t like Parties like at all lmao. screaming ayy w mad other ppl just not appealing shorty called me boring the other day and while im comfortable w who I am that kinda felt bad. What should I do? Is it possible to force myself to like being in the mix like that?

Alright alright. Im gonna let you in on a secret here. If you are introverted then do what you want for 1-2 weeks and then do something with the boys that gets you out of your comfort zone. Then repeat.

Why you wanna change your whole life if you're comfy as you are over the opinion of some girl ?

Boring fam 🤝

Nothing wrong with the way ur living if u take care of yourself and socialize still

Don't take it to heart, if you're happy who gives a f*** how you're living

Do what you want and what you like @op. It's YOUR life. F*** other dumbass opinions

i’m probably boring to most people but forcing yourself to be outgoing is not fun to me either lol

Just do u

4 love lol, the party phase should fade right? Lol

Are you really boring or did you just have no chemistry and common interests ?

Boa don’t ever force yourself to be something you’re not for a shorty. You not boring cause you don’t be in the mix. Ain’t nothing wrong with getting money and staying out the way.

You going down a bad route if you're changing who you are to meet other people's expectations.

some self reflection on things you want to change never hurts but sounds like your all good bro

That’s what I thought bro had me thinking is it such a bad thing?

really good question, the chemistry is there it’s just when we focus on this aspect we don’t line up. everything else is twin flame type beat lol

Psychology trick

Don’t let mfs know what you do on a daily basis. It will make them guess and trick them into thinking you’re interesting

If u r failing your courses I’d worry more about that I hope you are doing well in school tho

gang

harder to juggle work and school than i thought fr praying

I’m telling you from experience you need to reach out and email your professors now! And explain to them that you’re failing why, and how you guys can meet in the middle to make sure you pass. Because it’s already bout to be December and they’re not gonna wanna hear that shot at the end of the semester. All they will say is probably …well why didn’t you say something before?

I’m begging you bro

If you tryna change yourself for love you’ll never get the love you’re looking for. Keep being yourself and keep your head up. You’ll find your way.

It’s def hard tho

im too scared they’ll be like “2bad” failed a midterm ready 2 off myself but ima thug it out there’s always next semester