Yes I think there’s kinks that are based on patriarchal violence are something that we should turn a critical lens to.
The bedroom is not a separate thing from society, it can and does reflect society
You’re a smart guy man and I generally agree with your takes, don’t be obtuse and reduce my argument to a strawman of “anything besides boring vanilla s***is sexist”
I’m not even necessarily saying that those things are always and in every context bad. But we should all be willing to self critically examine why those kinks may exist and understand how they can be harmful. Just saying all kinks are “valid” for the sake of being kinks is not productive and can lead to some really dangerous ideas about s**
I mean exploration is something that was done prior to p***.
Was s*** like the kama sutra book and old art pieces depicting women in dominant sexual positions also encouraging problematic discourse?
Animals get each other off in different ways, why is it frowned upon for humans as individuals to do the same.
And you have the right to have vanilla sex. And I aint even that extreme but vanilla s***imo to me is boring. BDSM has been known to help victims of rape get their agency back too btw. Especially when dealing with s*** like the dom/sub perspective where the sub actually has control of the entire scene (at any point they can stop it) but the dom also provides aftercare afterwards if the sub asks for it.
What about this screams problematic? If somebody likes to get choked or spanked or bitten, why cant it just be because “that’s what I like”
@insertcoolnamehere and I don’t always agree lol but he’s right.
too many of y’all are listing problems that existed WAY BEFORE p***, and generally were worse before p*** and using it as a justification to say p*** is bad for kids.
just doesn’t make much sense.
btw s***isn’t just about safety and consent. there’s also pleasure, kink, exploration, etc and some of that can be explored safely, on your own, through p***.
guess what? some pre-teen girls see someone get choked/spit on for the first time in a p*** vid these days. think that’s awful? well in the past, some girls saw it for the first time with some old ass mfer in their neighborhood or in their family actually doing it to them and telling them it’s normal.
I swear every generation has an ego and thinks they’ve got it so bad or they’re so unique.
Conflict in one thread but on the same page in another. It’s the internet.
But thank you lmfao. You dont gotta be a degenerate/porn addict to understand these are problems that was here way before Hustler lol
So f***ing raw and having multiple baby mamas had nothing to do with horrible parenting or bad education.
But because niggas liked to watch Cherokee D’Ass getting plowed. Got it bro.
i literally specified lack of s***education
yall were watching p*** as kids? back in the day i had wet dreams watching torrie wilson on WWF.
real ones used to bust nuts to bra and panties matches in wwe smackdown vs raw on ps2
I started when the psp came out and had a browser on it. So, when I was 10-11 as well. I'm pretty sure in this day and age this is common.
Yes I think there’s kinks that are based on patriarchal violence are something that we should turn a critical lens to.
The bedroom is not a separate thing from society, it can and does reflect society
You’re a smart guy man and I generally agree with your takes, don’t be obtuse and reduce my argument to a strawman of “anything besides boring vanilla s***is sexist”
I’m not even necessarily saying that those things are always and in every context bad. But we should all be willing to self critically examine why those kinks may exist and understand how they can be harmful. Just saying all kinks are “valid” for the sake of being kinks is not productive and can lead to some really dangerous ideas about s**
I didn't see what you guys were discussing prior but I just want to say the degree to which society polices "kinks" should be minimal.
Once we enter into the realm of consenting adults, this dialogue makes no sense to me. The focus should be on teaching people consent and having open communication between s***partners outside the bedroom. Not this.
After all the critical examination and whatever, the point is to tell adults what should make them c***and I personally don't agree.
yall were watching p*** as kids? back in the day i had wet dreams watching torrie wilson on WWF.
real ones used to bust nuts to bra and panties matches in wwe smackdown vs raw on ps2
masturbating is bad for you bro dont do it or you a degenerate. lmfao
I mean…didn’t we all?
yall were watching p*** as kids? back in the day i had wet dreams watching torrie wilson on WWF.
real ones used to bust nuts to bra and panties matches in wwe smackdown vs raw on ps2
When they put browsers on every device it was a wrap.
i literally specified lack of s***education
no point in arguing with his dumbass lmao
I mean exploration is something that was done prior to p***.
Was s*** like the kama sutra book and old art pieces depicting women in dominant sexual positions also encouraging problematic discourse?
Animals get each other off in different ways, why is it frowned upon for humans as individuals to do the same.
And you have the right to have vanilla sex. And I aint even that extreme but vanilla s***imo to me is boring. BDSM has been known to help victims of rape get their agency back too btw. Especially when dealing with s*** like the dom/sub perspective where the sub actually has control of the entire scene (at any point they can stop it) but the dom also provides aftercare afterwards if the sub asks for it.
What about this screams problematic? If somebody likes to get choked or spanked or bitten, why cant it just be because “that’s what I like”
I think we’re talking past each other and arguing different things here
I acknowledged that straight away that problematic kinks don’t necessarily come from p*** (although it certainly doesn’t help the matter)
I’m not sure where you got the thing about “women in dominant positions” being my issue, that’s not at all what I’m describing.
The kamasutra doesn’t depict men slapping around or choking women nearly out of breath. There is a world of difference between sexual experimentation and a man getting off on violently dominating a woman on some weird ass BDSM s***
idk about anyone here but 11 year olds shouldn’t be thinking about s***let alone having infinite access to p***
I didn't see what you guys were discussing prior but I just want to say the degree to which society polices "kinks" should be minimal.
Once we enter into the realm of consenting adults, this dialogue makes no sense to me. The focus should be on teaching people consent and having open communication between s***partners outside the bedroom. Not this.
After all the critical examination and whatever, the point is to tell adults what should make them c***and I personally don't agree.
I don’t really care if two adults “consent” to doing s*** like race or age play lol that s*** is f***ed up and reinforces horrible values
Shoutout to shawty though, making a complete 180 in a year to dating a racist and homophobic white man and being anti-sex worker in one year.
I'm not really engaging anymore with this topic. Like I said, I hope the G&G sxn was deleted or yall just having a collectively bad day cause this thread is astounding for the s*** yall be posting every other day lmfao.
I don’t really care if two adults “consent” to doing s*** like race or age play lol that s*** is f***ed up and reinforces horrible values
Well lemme play the smallest violin cause, it's none of your business anyways.
idk about anyone here but 11 year olds shouldn’t be thinking about s***let alone having infinite access to p***
Lost in translation cause Tik Tok got em doing p*** moves on camera