This is thirst talking, you’ll see in 3 years that there’s plenty of girls just as special as her

Hinge is much better than tinder, trust.

Crazy I can't imagine my grandma knowing my d*** is dry

I had my options open for years I need to just meet more women that’s the problem. Only reason I met K is cause of my grandma. I don’t want to cold approach I need some sort of connection.

Only idea I got is hanging out with K and hope she introduces me to her friends and try to get with them there just ain’t no other way

get on your phone and google "RVA nightlife". whatever is closest to you and looks interesting go there and socialize/hangout. pretty sure you got friends/co-workers your age (i f***ing hope you do). go with them and f*** it up. just enjoy yourself and you'll end up having some stories to tell and not just talk about the s*** you like on the internet, that only goes so far unless you meet an introverted girl who's similar to you. as for the photography go out on a walk and look for some cool spots to take pics (maybe you see someone who looks interesting and ask if you can take a pic of them) . the point of this is to get yourself comfortable with approaching people in general and not focused on just girls. don't put them on a pedestal, it's weird af and makes you seem desperate.

Nigga use Hinge Damn! and what @blue_42_ said

kinda feel bad for dude.

Girls always know you’re desperate, to get out of that mindset stop going in with expectations. Don’t think in wins and losses. This is so key, this is what made me able to pull girls so much easier

What’d you change

tf is a round up

Need pics to refresh my memory of this girl…

I just stopped looking at it as a game where you win or lose. I’d go into a date thinking “if I don’t kiss her it’s an L”, this is what causes you to come off desperate.

Stopped trying to be likable, I don’t mean be an a****** but it’s okay to disagree with a girl on things, debate her a lil bit they like it way more than a yes man. I noticed I’d disagree with girls that I wasn’t that attracted to and have fun convos but then with a baddie I was a yes man, had to change that.

Stopped having dry ass convos on Hinge that lead nowhere, only thing the dating app should be used for is securing the date.If the convo is flowing then so be it but don’t drag on convos for no reason, she will lose interest.

Stopped showing my cards too early, like if you into a girl you can’t be pouring your feelings out on the 2nd date. Keep them guessing but don’t act like a f***boy or player.

Stopped looking at them as a prize, im the prize.

It's not. Stop it.

girls, and people in general, rarely compliment your fit, you gotta let go of this notion that every girl should say something about your fit.

sometimes all they say is "wow you look nice" or whatever, but thats it

Yea be straightforward and let her know that you want next time to be just the two of you again dont make any assumptions about what may or may not happen or your just gonna worry urself for no reason its all in your head

Yea its over brah she aint interested in you. On to da next

Business casual and lightning 4s

Haven't gone through the thread but I hope you got at least 15 digital slaps for that

That wasnt your lady nigga

She just hunged out with u out of pity

wild thing to say

dam he just like me

Whenever I used to use tinder (as a 5’8 black man) I had a ton of success. But I’d just swipe right until I ran out of likes & usually would end with 30+ by end of day

Then I’d just send the same generic message to them all and see who bites. Met prolly 5 chicks off of there

Just get an escort.

Your desperation will turn women away in seconds.

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someone tldr the last 20 pages

breh what