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  • Dec 21, 2019

    So pretty much i'm super ugly, like majorly f***ed up. I look like a f***ing troll. I wish i was exaggerating but its seriously f***ed me up. I have maybe 5 pics of myself over the past few years, looking at myself in the mirror too long f***s up my day/week, and I avoid going out in public bc i feel like i'm too ugly to deserve the outside like regular people or i feel like people are just staring and judging me for leaving the house looking so disgusting.

    I've posted pics on reddit and stuff, and asked my friends and everyone says i'm not ugly but I legit feel like everyone's lying to me. Like when i see myself i barely even see a human being anymore so other people have to feel like that too right? idk if anyone else here can relate or has advice

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    this does not sound healthy at all. have you tried talking to a doc/therapist about this?

  • I avoid going out in public bc i feel like i'm too ugly to deserve the outside like regular people
    go to a therapist or sum bro none is that ugly

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    That just sounds like serious issues with self image bro. You're projecting your own insecurities on other people. One of my friends would say she was ugly for time even though we were telling her that she looked fine, it could just be that.

    You could post your image here too if you really don't believe anybody telling you you look fine, people here don't really hold back with the honesty.

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    KURCOBANE

    this does not sound healthy at all. have you tried talking to a doc/therapist about this?

    i have but it wasn't really helpful they were just like 'you're not ugly' and thats it

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    Kossisko

    That just sounds like serious issues with self image bro. You're projecting your own insecurities on other people. One of my friends would say she was ugly for time even though we were telling her that she looked fine, it could just be that.

    You could post your image here too if you really don't believe anybody telling you you look fine, people here don't really hold back with the honesty.

    i would get roasted so bad if i posted here i'm not trying to feel even worse lmao

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    i would get roasted so bad if i posted here i'm not trying to feel even worse lmao

    Thats probably tru.

    It almost sounds like you wanna be ugly for some confirmation by the way you're talking tho. Like everybodys telling you that you look fine n u think literally everyone is lying

    If u send an imgur link to this rmcugwjd.5e0@​20minutemail.it email ill lyk straight up if ur butt ugly doe

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    Kossisko

    Thats probably tru.

    It almost sounds like you wanna be ugly for some confirmation by the way you're talking tho. Like everybodys telling you that you look fine n u think literally everyone is lying

    If u send an imgur link to this rmcugwjd.5e0@​20minutemail.it email ill lyk straight up if ur butt ugly doe

    it just feels like i'm the only one not lying. like everything i've experienced in my life points to me being ugly and people just dismiss it when i ask them cause they dont wanna be honest or hurt me

    i feel like i'm being gaslit tbh

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  • Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    it just feels like i'm the only one not lying. like everything i've experienced in my life points to me being ugly and people just dismiss it when i ask them cause they dont wanna be honest or hurt me

    i feel like i'm being gaslit tbh

    I get that but honestly, even if u believe that your ugly as sin, no matter how u look, how u carry yourself is the s*** that really matters. I got an ugly ass friend whos always pulling girls based on the fact that he carries himself like somebody that looks better than he does lol

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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Fam. Idk you so i have no reason to lie to you. You're actually p good looking. The fact that you think you look ugly looking like that just sounds like you need a therapist. On god.

    Idk how to drill this into you, nobodys lying to you. You look good. N you sound like you just needa work on your confidence bro

  • Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Go to a therapist bro you ain’t ugly to the point you can’t go outside (no homo) lmao

  • rvi
    Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    i have but it wasn't really helpful they were just like 'you're not ugly' and thats it

    were they a specialist for body dysmophia type stuff? maybe seek out a therapist that specializes in that if you can

  • Dec 21, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Bro, you’re not ugly. You gotta do something about your hair though. You look like you need to take better care of yourself.

  • CKL TML 🌺
    Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    BOI if you dont get your gorgeous ass outta here with this bullshit ass thread

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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    you look like a normal human being

  • Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Boy if you think you're ugly you should definitely get help to work on your confidence and mental health.
    You're not even close to ugly bruh

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    Kossisko

    Fam. Idk you so i have no reason to lie to you. You're actually p good looking. The fact that you think you look ugly looking like that just sounds like you need a therapist. On god.

    Idk how to drill this into you, nobodys lying to you. You look good. N you sound like you just needa work on your confidence bro

    yeah idk maybe i do need a therapist bc i don't see it

  • Dec 21, 2019
    Negroknight

    Bro, you’re not ugly. You gotta do something about your hair though. You look like you need to take better care of yourself.

    yeah i started working out a few months ago but i'm still fat and ugly tho lmao rip

  • Dec 21, 2019
    A New Impression

    you look like a normal human being

    i honestly feel like i'm way worse than a normal human

  • Dec 21, 2019

    I totally get what you mean in a way. Other people can tell you that you look good or whatever, but it doesnt matter. You still see the same image of yourself, whether it be in the mirror or a photo. Again, it doesnt matter. They are wrong, maybe because they just want you to feel better, they have no taste or they lie unconsciously to you and themselves. You aren't blind, you know better.

    Its strange. Sometimes it feels like you just need more compliments, maybe than you can see yourself the same way others apparently do. But that wont work. As i said, you know better. I dont know what to say, except that i kinda understand this feeling. Experiences shape us, so maybe we just need more positive ones to change our perspective. Hang in there man, keep it up.

    Btw, you are definitely not ugly

  • Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    yeah idk maybe i do need a therapist bc i don't see it

    Your problems sound deep rooted or some s***, no amount of confirmation from strangers or friends is gon fix the way you feel about yourself.

    Just know tho, you didn't wanna post your pic cuz you thought people here would roast you. P much everyone here is saying theres nothing wrong with the way you look.

    Take it how you will but if you were ugly i wouldve told you straight up, a harsh truth is better than a white lie. You really do look good tho. Whatever experiences you've had in life that made you think you were confirmed ugly are probably just your own projections\cognitive distortions

  • Dec 21, 2019
    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    only thing ugly abt you is ur mindset bro not bad looking

  • Dec 21, 2019
    KURCOBANE

    this does not sound healthy at all. have you tried talking to a doc/therapist about this?

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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Man U literally look like a normal ass person lmao

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