I did it yesterday. Took me 2 years to go through with it. I've known him for 7 years and we used to be roommates. Realized i outgrew him and his insecure personality. He was constantly taking shots at me passive aggressively. I was giving him breadcrumbs of attention before this.

Anyone else done this before.

Good s***

Yup it’s dam near harder than getting out of a romantic relationship

i have but i just ghosted his ass lol, always jealous and throwing shade

acting like a b**** get treated like a b****

These are honestly the worst

I had a friend I was extremely close to for about 9 years but she change completely & went down a destructive path I couldn’t follow at all

Sometimes I wonder if I did the right thing or if I could’ve changed her

It is. He responded angry af so I just blocked him

just gotta hit em with the "you're mad f***ing annoying" and walk away

havent spoken to em since

I realize as an adult you don't owe anyone to stay . You can split at any time. I just was always afraid of those 7 years being a waste.

I felt that

It’s also hard making friends or finding the time to make new friends as you get older

Which makes those break ups harder because you know the chances of finding someone who can match that bond is rare

Don’t think of them as a waste bro it was just an experience

Unless it’s something extreme, I’d normally have a talk with me them and see if they realize their wrongs, willing to be open to change. That’s what I did to one of my friends several months ago and he accepted what he’s done. Nowadays though I distanced myself from him

Toxic friends are the worst lol those the ones I use the slow fade away tactic with

Yeah you have to put alot more effort into meeting people as an adult and alot of times those friendships are harder to stick with due to changes

He was very negative always talking about others or putting me down passively. S*** we was groomsmen at a wedding . The only 2 and he wouldn't make any free time for the bachelors party or nothing. Then he talked s*** about the couple to.

really is the worst

Yup..bro... ONG I know how you feel I just had to distance myself from those situations surround yourself with more positive ppl friendships where all y’all do is gossip and be negative is not the wave especially not if you’re an adult

Its more of me not liking a single thing about his personality or character

Lost my best friend this year to her boyfriend and his friends

She stopped hitting me up and replying to me. Never asked me to hang anymore and when I would text her sometimes she wouldn’t hit me back till like a week later talking about “I’m bad at replying”

It hurt because iv known her since I was a freshman in HS and she didn’t get with her current dude until like maybe junior year. They’ll probably end up married and kids and all that s*** but just sucks that I slowly got edged out

Like he would talk so much s*** about his "friends". Trash they marriages and relationships and be hyper critical. He'd talk s*** about all our mutual friends . Then how da he'll do i know you're not thinking that way about me? Was just toxic .

This hurt me bro. I hate when people ghost you. Id like a formal ending to things. I had a real good friend do this to me years ago

You not exempt lmaoooo people like that not sparing nobody when the time comes

When they talk s*** about somebody they was just all buddy buddy with

I think it’s out of respects to her man, if you had a girlfriend I’m sure you wouldn’t want her spending free time with another guy

Bruh I thought he hated this one nigga. Why I see he went on vacation with him and his wife...
Then he trashed the nigga saying he was weird af and that he only got married so he can smash.