Yeee sorry I was a little unclear, when I said clearly communicated I meant to any involved third parties as well. Deception ethically negates consent imo, so that'd be f***ed up

tbh

Yes. But I think it has to start off that way.

Idk about other people but I couldn't build this big bond with someone for her to get d***ed down by different people every night

So I think it only has a chance if that's how the relationship starts that way you know what the deal is from the get go

Maybe. Feel like someone's gonna get attached to the person their f***ing outside of the relationship. Or imagine ya get in an argument or jealous, etc

yeah, but it takes 2 very specific kind of people for it to happen. most of the time 1 of the 2 is more into it than the other and the less interested kind of begrudgingly accepts and that never ends well.

Does your partner know?

If it was just like open sexually it wouldn't bother me

For other people maybe that’ll work but for me if a woman was to ask me for an open relationship id end all contact then and there

See thats what a lot of people are saying and I agree. Both parties have to be equally into it or you're f***ed from the get-go.

Eh

Yeah I guess it depends on how you define it. I definitely don't think I could handle my girl going on dates and s*** with some other guy she was f***ing, and I'd feel weird going on dates with some other girl too. At that point, I see the argument of people who say 'whats the point of the relationship?' Then it becomes more polyamorous than just open relationship imo and thats a whole new set of challenges lmao.

Just sex, even though it sounds bad, makes more sense to me. Everyone loves that beginning part of flirting with someone and seeing if they're interested back

i don't think it's for me, I feel like I would get too jealous at one point

but on a theorical level I understand why, like sometimes it feels like people don't want to admit they can be sexually attracted to other people, even when they're in a relationship

on a practical level, other stuff comes into play: jealousy, if one partner benefits more from the arrangement than the other etc.

I also feel like before contemplating this, partners have to change the way they view s***and the possessiveness that comes with it

I had several open relationships so far and they all worked wonderful

Thats true, I'm p sure in most relationships the girl would have way more luck widdit if she was really trying. And that sounds hard af not to feel some type of way about

it can work

my aunt has a poly relationship and they've been together since i was a baby pretty much

I saw two people talking about their open relationship on the internet and they were like "if I matched on Tinder with this person, I'll show my partner and they would tell me if they're ok or not with me f***ing this person"

this is the part I didn't really understand, personally I'd turn a blind eye - I do mine, you do you, no judgement though because I'm not part of this, I don't experience their feelings and other people's relationships boundaries don't concern anyone else than them

See that sounds more challenging but also dope af to me if you can pull it off

One of the first things I always think about with that is holidays sound impossible. My girl's parents are divorced so we already have to do every holiday 3 times and its insane

If they all worked wonderful why were there several and in the past tense

No cause it aint a real relationship

Did u know they were open

B**** niggas keeping my name in they mouth i have no idea why.

@Makaveli stop giving Pac fans a bad name

I thought that was the joke they were tryna make but idk

Why do you feel this way?

Nope. Someone will eventually be over knowing they have to share