I'm reading a book about socializing and when the author wrote about the first interaction, she said it really doesn't matter what you actually say, just how you say it. The only exception is something unpleasant like whining, if you do that they assume you're a whiner. Why? Because that's their 100% sample size of you, all they know about you at that point is that you whine. So simple but true, had me like

So yeah, we do base someone off first interaction. But its more than just verbal, body language and facial expression send hella messages without us even realizing. I wouldn't say its a complete picture though and it can change over time

can confirm, meth head shattered my back left window in my car a few weeks back

didn’t even f***ing take anything they clearly was just off the s***s (and an assholw smh)

Naaw, it takes years to really get to know a person, so first expressions don’t never really last

Nah but let's not act like first impression is disregardable

if so I'm f***ed lol