If u can fake the confidence ...yes

Bro, alphas don't need friends and don't seek validation from others, yes. I agree with that. However, to only associate with people if they have something to offer seems sociopathic, don't you think? Sociopaths see others as opportunities, not as individuals.

A common misconception is that alphas are looking only after themselves, but that's not true. Alphas put others, especially their loved ones, before themselves. Alphas don't need to have everything their way. They know the world doesn't revolve around them. They're comfortable with that.

Been suffering from Social Anxiety for 10 or more years now.

Can confidently say, no.

But then again that depends on whether your not you accept the concept of an alpha as a real thing.

Alpha female

I wouldn't consider myself an alpha I'm a god why would I concern myself with you mortals you think small.

Lol I’m not a sociopath and I’m no one important but I’m a good friend to have because I look out for my friends and above all my family. But my friends all have something to offer or a certain quality that I value and can try to learn from and I would assume they think the same of me. I agree with your entire post

Imagine believing in the alpha/beta thing

toxic.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I also agree with you. I had to stop hanging out with a couple people I thought were my friends because they have nothing positive to offer. All they did was the same old stuff, bringing toxicity to my life.

I don't mind helping people out even if they don't have anything to offer, but if they show that they're ungrateful or that they don't really care about me, I'm out. I also don't mind if they have nothing I can learn or benefit from, but some of these people are lazy and annoying. They're unwilling to change. There's no point in wasting time or energy on them because time and energy are limited and valuable.

You're doing it right.

You live how you want but I personally don’t grow when using words like “alpha” . I’m a man, only.

I don’t think you can be your best self when you’re suffering from anything tbh. To provide a solution I’d check out some reddit pages on the matter. There’s also a YouTube page called “the man mindset” which has helped me tremendously with social nervousness

No

Yes

i’m not white idk what that is.

Being an alpha is about more than being the life of the party. I know plenty of men who are leaders and take care of their families but hate crowds and social gatherings. Don't look at fake s*** and question yourself. All that stuff is superficial anyway.

If you don't let it show.

RIP op

what are you talking about?

imagine getting on the internet and exposing yourself as a beta male

Lmao one day you’ll get it bro

so you telling me if there is a room full of scrawny white Overwatch players, and one Idris Elba, and they are tasked with let's say, doing pushups, there is no alpha in that situation

All that Alpha Crap is bullshit.
What is that even suppossed to mean, what even is an alpha female?!
This only allures to people who think that life is about competition and that you can be "better" than others, whatever that means. Then you start thinking in boxes like "Oh I'm Alpha if I've got the most Cash, the 90/60/90 woman and the flyest car", when in fact exactly this thinking limits you and causes social anxiety in the first place.

Being Human is not only about competition, free yourself from those shackles.

The people who try to put others into caskets like "Alpha" and "Beta" are the ones who are the most basic probably, it's not worth chasing this image in my opinion, you'll only try to live based on the opinion of others instead of following your own interests.

But oh well... I'm probably a Beta then.

Comparison is the thief of joy g

alphas don't compare

Do you not realize the irony in saying this lol