To be honest he stole what you thought was your bag.
You lost because you thought you had it in the bag and he knew that regardless of what work you put in that he outdid you for said bag.
You think you bossed up on him a little bit but you got finessed. He took your perceived bag. The real L is that you also walked up and got her number, which is basically telling him “you won the battle, but not the war”. That’s what the loser says when he loses. GG @op

Wtf was I supposed to do?

I’m on the way to f*** her and meanwhile this f*** nigga whos been talking to her all night is circling the block with her friends to find her like a b**** ass nigga

she tells me that she’s in to someone else (him) while making out with me, and tells me that this is a one time thing, which I’m fine with

You were supposed to not be fine with this. Idk how you didn’t feel disrespected and drop her the moment this happened

You shoulda went back into the party and enjoyed yourself, maybe talk to someone else. It’s not that serious until you pull a move like asking for her number after making out with her and s*** when she moved to another guy. That’s when you make it seriously kinda cringe. If you move on you just charge it to the game and know you were smooth enough to get that quick dub.

Can you elaborate? In that moment I was thinking idgaf I’m just tryna get my d*** wet so I didn’t really care who she was in to.

I thought i could finesse the p****, but I see what you mean. I mean when you’ve been making out and fingering someone you would think you’d have a chance

Yeah that’s from your perspective. Who’s to say he was at the party and didn’t want to be too close to her and give the impression that’s his girl so he could see what’s up with other girls. Maybe he saw the options and wasn’t satisfied at the end of the night and decided to fall back on this girl. At that point he just decided to come back to her and move you aside instead of putting in work with someone else. You assume he put effort into the finesse when it may not be the case. And even if he did, you’re trying to rationalize a traumatic experience because of the it makes you feel better. It’s over

It’s about dignity

• you and a girl are vibing together about to f***
• she sees another nigga and has the nerve to tell you she really wants him and doesn’t fw you like that, y’all just a one time thing

The fact that she thought she could tell you that was disrespectful af. You should’ve left her be after that, you should’ve been like “go be with that nigga then tf?”. F*** getting your d*** wet that’s just not okay and you would’ve seen that if you weren’t thinking with your d*** mane, hopefully you learned tho

Good looks, I was off the s***s and was thinking bout 1 thing only. Will take it as a learning experience although it hurt my self esteem ngl

The night was young and I was out with her 30min tops. I was out the party with her 5 min after meeting her, and back in the party the other dude got his arm round her looking like a b**** ass nigga after I just got done getting with her. No idea why you’re riding so hard for dude smh this site full of haters