Heatwaves

4mo

I did worse, my girl went through my phone and saw me entertaining a girl posting thirst traps a year ago. Now my entire relationship is on the brink because of a decision high me made and I have no one to blame but myself. It's tough knowing its completely your fault and i just need to pray for forgiveness. My girl says she still loves me and we're working through it but the anxiety of knowing it can end at any moment and Its totally my fault pains me.

She was the one, smart beautiful and bolstered me up, and i almost threw it away for some random girl postin on her private story that i would never want to date.

papawheely

4mo

Been 3 months and I’m a mess my brother

TheRocket64

4mo

I'm so sorry to hear this bro

Praying for you

Has it gotten a little better as time has passed?? Or still feel the same

TheRocket64

4mo

How your relationship currently going?? Yea life def gets complicated. If you end up going abroad permanently is there any chance she can come with you??

The same way you feel is the same way I felt even during the relationship it would freak me out how amazing perfect it was an subconsciously I was always scared it would one day come to an end and that's what exactly happened unfortunately

Sussudio

4mo

ball up top

yosa

4mo

bro you got this, just gotta find a distraction somehow — best if it's with other people too. team sport, new hobby or w/e you can think of

papawheely

4mo

Been really distracted with an old game I picked up again in preparation for a tournament in Vegas so I’ve kept myself preoccupied mentally

When it’s over after next Monday I’m probably hitting a super low point cause it’s all gonna be over and I have to deal with the true consequences of my actions

Appreciate u asking bro ❤️

PIMP

4mo

I think the relationship is going well but we both work abroad and sometimes our vacations don’t line up so she goes back to her country, I go back to mine its good but I have some things lined up to go to the States permanently

And for her it might not be the same

I think I’d probably be heartbroken if it doesn’t work out

I’m also prioritizing the career decision factoring in the potential love lost

I’m being very careful & calculated but this caught me off guard cause we met accidentally and just clicked and thats where it will hurt the most, cause I feel we’re just right

TheRocket64

4mo

Ooo I see so you don't always get to see her consistently then

Always the best to prioritize the future of your career but the way I see it is everything in life happens for a reason and if the two of you are meant to be together forever the physical distance and logistical complications won't ruin something that is destiny

If a difficult decision comes up soon please let me know I'll be sure to pray for you

TheRocket64

4mo

What game?? Coincidentally before all of this happened I was gonna go to Vegas for a Magic: The Gathering tourney

Aww I'm sorry you're dealing with these emotions too

We'll both get through our heartbreak I promise you you're not alone and we're all in this together

Sending you all my love right now and wishing you the best of luck on your tourney!! You're gonna kill it bro

TheRocket64

4mo

Long story short she basically broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years to be with me

Months later she felt guilty and wanted proper closure with him and I overreacted

TheRocket64

4mo

Ooo I see so you don't always get to see her consistently then

Always the best to prioritize the future of your career but the way I see it is everything in life happens for a reason and if the two of you are meant to be together forever the physical distance and logistical complications won't ruin something that is destiny

If a difficult decision comes up soon please let me know I'll be sure to pray for you

RICHAXXVOYCE

4mo

Advice: always keep one or two on ice. Never go all in on the girlfriend

TheRocket64

4mo

Literally me in 2022 when I was juggling 6 different girls and they all showed up at the same event and were like "how do you know him??"

TheRocket64

4mo

Thank God that she knew that your heart is with her

Happy to hear that she didn't break up with you

That's real love and I'm sure she knows that you would never make the same mistake again

PIMP

4mo

Yeah we’re together right now and she’s actually leaving for home on my birthday which gonna put me down real bad but we are all grown so I’ll process it the best I can in that moment

Music & gym helps alot

papawheely

4mo

Halo 2 haha it’s a 20 year anniversary tourney with the best players in the game currently. Really excited and it’ll be my first time in Vegas.

After that I might come back itt for someone to talk to ngl

We gonna get through this for sure. It’s a day by day thing

headieone

4mo

Above everything else

You need to adopt an abundance mindset whilst still being open to the possibility of you guys rekindling

quadra

4mo

"Closure" is a myth btw

Shy

4mo

what's your Discord bro?

aaaaaaaaa

4mo

lmao that reminds me when friend invited 4 of the girls he was messing with cuz he “didn’t expect them to talk” at the end of the day he started to date the passaround and stopped talking to us

Heatwaves

4mo

Never ever. But it has opened me up to so much grief and stress. I dont know if i'll ever get the trust of her friends back again

TheRocket64

4mo

Ooo I see. When's your bday?? Hope you have an awesome bday bro

One of my best friends started going to the gym and has been trying to convince me to go too so I might take him up on that offer