I believe it's more about your relationship to your 'fitness' in your daily life. Like if you don't want to look at the dessert card on a date because of sugar, no one is going to think you're disciplined, they're going to think you're annoying as f***
(obv for stuff like diabetes and diseases it's cool)
what guys think is "their muscles attracting girls" is actually just their own newfound confidence in themselves that they lacked previously due to the whole body dysmorphia thing and hating the man they saw in the mirror...that's attracting the girls.
just like shawty smells desperation, they can also smell confidence.
Every guy regardless of BMI should carry themselves with the confidence of a mediocre white man who weighs lanky asf (CAUSE THEY BE GETTING ALL THE HOES BREH)
Nah absolutely not. There’s a point of diminishing returns if you’re super jacked or massive where you can start to look uncanny, but in general people will treat you with much more respect if you look strong and have visible muscle.
I’ve been skinny, skinny fat, chunky, and now muscular and the way that women and people in general treat a weak looking guy vs a strong one is night & day.
Just be you
There's girls that love it and those that don't
Like everything
I know girls love beards, yet I can't grow one, just rock moustache, I don't have any problems getting women
Just be you and own it
I work on my physique too, it's good for the mind and healthy
Idgaf if a girl would say she don't like my muscles, not doing it for her, so she can bounce
If youre natty its pretty much impossible to get to point of diminishing returns unless youre above a certain percentage of body fat
I feel like the limit for them is nfl draft picks physique . Anything over that is doing too much