Do they trauma dump to you? Or tell their secrets

Idk what it is but ppl always spill their guts to me

I know im a good listener but it's to a level where it's crayz tho

Like people tell me things they never told other people

It's both men and women but i feel like women especially do this a lot w me i wonder why

Das cuz ur a good friend

yes and i know why im a very non judgin person and great listener

but bro... you did not have to tell me that your family back home in the villages on an incest type beat

Thank you king

Yea i'm very non judgemental as well i think that's a big part of it

A week or to ago i had a girl come over talk abt her exchange to the US and how she calls the daughters of her host family back then her own sister and how attached she is to them bc since her parents are divorced and that's the family in her life that wasn't broken up

I was like damb you don't even know my real first name

yeah

A lot

Yes. I used to work at a psychiatric hospital and patients always tried to talk to me about irrelevant s***. Worked fast food and was always put on front counter.

People say I'm "approachable"...

sometimes, I usually try to make them feel as comfortable as they need, I tell them I don't judge so most of them tell me they feel very comfy with me because they can tell me whatever they want

Nope

Same with me cause I help em out and don’t ask for anything in return

Helps to listen, people love to be heard

Like crazy bro, I'm not sure what it is, I appreciate that people trust me with secrets and I don't tell them to others

yeah.

When you’re a good listener and don’t come across as judgemental, this happens

definitely the "can i tell you a secret" friend.

Usually cause I'll deadass forget you even told me lol

oh yeah. i guess i really put people at ease? i think it's cuz they never see me gossiping and subconsciously realize that i can be trusted.

i don't talk to people like that, i don't share even the most casual of information said to me.

so sometimes I'll just stop them and say I'm not that guy please dump somewhere else. i don't care about you Brenda i don't need your trauma

when people dump positivity on you

Just happened to me last night

Nope

People know I'm a huge a******

this but not cuz i don't forget i just don't tell other ppl's business like that

This works irl

Ye

They used to until my own issues started becoming too much and I completely stopped listening to other people problems. Sometimes I feel like it’s some a****** s*** but deep down a nigga gotta work out my own problems before letting others dump their s*** on me.

mutual vulnerability fosters closeness