Insecurity sucks

I have no idea how other people see me

That’s what I mean. Like I want to know how other people perceive me

Nope. I'd get jealous of myself. I'm so long tan and handsome.

Avy to post

I'd f*** the s*** out of myself. I'm a catch. Even if I were a guy, I'd try to see if I could trade myself.

But that wouldn't that only increase your insecurity? When I'm public for example I rather just believe nobody is paying attention to me.

I overthink it too much. I would rather know if people think I’m weird.

Awww OP try psychedelics . Also try loving yourself

you're too worried about how you're viewed

you have to realize it doesn't matter

I used to have this kind of mentality too. Always trying to be as invisible as possible, never doing anything that would draw attention to myself, and always worrying about how I was being perceived by others. The truth is when you live like that it's a prison of your own making.

Even if you really want to know what other people think, at the end of the day you can't right? So what would then matter is how they act towards you, and in that regards, how many times have you been publically acknowledged? Only a handful of times. And then, how many times has it been negative? Not that many times I bet.

We all think of ourselves as the center of the universe, because we're the center of our own lives, but to most people we're not even an afterthought.

You can live a life walking on eggshells and always sacrificing personal satisfaction for public approval, or you can prioritize your own self perception instead. The latter has definitely made me happier.

no you don't they don't know you.

it f***ing sucks bro.

mind ya buisness and ya image
age be happy

You ever get an outfit and s*** together and while at home you think you look good, but then you see yourself passing by a mirror in a department store and think “Man, I can never wear this s*** ever again.”

no i don't give a single f*** what anyone else thinks about me except my wife and she adores me for the dirtbag anime prince I am

Yes

I hate myself but i also don’t think I’m ugly

Like I know I can look way better

But im still kinda cute

Nope cause it would only be a fraction of a full picture

Why downgrade my (your) perspective?

That seems like a sound idea until you realize people may perceive you worse because of not having a full background, or they don't think of you at all enough to have any perception about you

It starts with you, who gives a s*** about the rest