When someone asks you to like name something
Like if they asked you for a movie you like
Or songs or artists you like
Anything
You just go completely blank and can't think of anything like your brain turns into jelly when they ask it ?
Social anxiety disorder
Yeah I guess this is how my brain responds to most things I guess
Like people can ask me stuff that I definitely know
But like when they ask it my brain is just like "whoaaaa"
Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”
Everyone laughed at me smh
If they ask for music show them your recently added on am/spotify. If they ask for movies just say toy story
Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”
Everyone laughed at me smh
nah but I never know how to answer "so what do you in your spare time?" like am I supposed to tell em I list my fav kanye albums in order, go window shopping online and watch asian p***?
Seek help I guess
How do I seek help when there gonna try asking me stuff and I'm just gonna be like "uhhhhhh idk"
I think deep down we know the answer but we're just trying to think of the best answer in context to the situation where it was asked
Like if somebody at a job interview asked you what your hobbies were you'd have to spend time thinking about your answer because it reflects how that person will perceive you and there's already pressure on you
But if one of your closest friends asked you you'd be able to answer a lot faster bc you know there won't be any repercussions or change in how that person sees you
Some of it definitely has to do with social anxiety, but it's nothing to worry about, everyone else would be the same unless they were used to being asked questions by strangers on the daily
For me it's cause they might not know what it is and I really don't want to just explain it.
I can usually come up with multiple answers and I need more parameters to answer it properly
Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”
Everyone laughed at me smh
If only they knew you meant to say ti
That's why I've already thought about it in case anybody asks so I don't have that problem. You should try making a list of your favorite things if that helps OP
I think deep down we know the answer but we're just trying to think of the best answer in context to the situation where it was asked
Like if somebody at a job interview asked you what your hobbies were you'd have to spend time thinking about your answer because it reflects how that person will perceive you and there's already pressure on you
But if one of your closest friends asked you you'd be able to answer a lot faster bc you know there won't be any repercussions or change in how that person sees you
Some of it definitely has to do with social anxiety, but it's nothing to worry about, everyone else would be the same unless they were used to being asked questions by strangers on the daily
I like how you broke this down
Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”
Everyone laughed at me smh
When someone asks you to like name something
Like if they asked you for a movie you like
Or songs or artists you like
Anything
You just go completely blank and can't think of anything like your brain turns into jelly when they ask it ?
Ye all the time hate that question
Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”
Everyone laughed at me smh