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  • Jun 13, 2022

    When someone asks you to like name something

    Like if they asked you for a movie you like

    Or songs or artists you like

    Anything

    You just go completely blank and can't think of anything like your brain turns into jelly when they ask it ?

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    Social anxiety disorder

  • Jun 13, 2022
    loner

    Social anxiety disorder

    Yeah I guess this is how my brain responds to most things I guess

    Like people can ask me stuff that I definitely know

    But like when they ask it my brain is just like "whoaaaa"

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”

    Everyone laughed at me smh

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    Yea it's a brain fart moment

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    If they ask for music show them your recently added on am/spotify. If they ask for movies just say toy story

  • rvi
    Jun 13, 2022
    Skrimps N Grits

    Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”

    Everyone laughed at me smh

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    wheatley

    Yea it's a brain fart moment

    Yeah but like all the time

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    Cant pick

    Yeah but like all the time

    Seek help I guess

  • Jun 13, 2022

    nah but I never know how to answer "so what do you in your spare time?" like am I supposed to tell em I list my fav kanye albums in order, go window shopping online and watch asian p***?

  • Jun 13, 2022
    wheatley

    Seek help I guess

    How do I seek help when there gonna try asking me stuff and I'm just gonna be like "uhhhhhh idk"

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    I think deep down we know the answer but we're just trying to think of the best answer in context to the situation where it was asked

    Like if somebody at a job interview asked you what your hobbies were you'd have to spend time thinking about your answer because it reflects how that person will perceive you and there's already pressure on you

    But if one of your closest friends asked you you'd be able to answer a lot faster bc you know there won't be any repercussions or change in how that person sees you

    Some of it definitely has to do with social anxiety, but it's nothing to worry about, everyone else would be the same unless they were used to being asked questions by strangers on the daily

  • Jun 13, 2022

    For me it's cause they might not know what it is and I really don't want to just explain it.

  • Jun 13, 2022

    I can usually come up with multiple answers and I need more parameters to answer it properly

  • Nessy 🦎
    Jun 13, 2022
    Skrimps N Grits

    Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”

    Everyone laughed at me smh

    If only they knew you meant to say ti

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    Just say 'I like turtles' and laugh about how random you are

  • Jun 13, 2022
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    BG

    Just say 'I like turtles' and laugh about how random you are

    Ummmm potato? 😅

  • Jun 13, 2022

    That's why I've already thought about it in case anybody asks so I don't have that problem. You should try making a list of your favorite things if that helps OP

  • Jun 13, 2022
    Lein

    Ummmm potato? 😅

  • Jun 13, 2022
    big stepper renzo

    I think deep down we know the answer but we're just trying to think of the best answer in context to the situation where it was asked

    Like if somebody at a job interview asked you what your hobbies were you'd have to spend time thinking about your answer because it reflects how that person will perceive you and there's already pressure on you

    But if one of your closest friends asked you you'd be able to answer a lot faster bc you know there won't be any repercussions or change in how that person sees you

    Some of it definitely has to do with social anxiety, but it's nothing to worry about, everyone else would be the same unless they were used to being asked questions by strangers on the daily

    I like how you broke this down

  • Jun 13, 2022
    Skrimps N Grits

    Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”

    Everyone laughed at me smh

  • Jun 13, 2022

    Yeah then 2 hours later, you figure out a really good response

  • proper 🔩
    Jun 14, 2022
    Cant pick

    When someone asks you to like name something

    Like if they asked you for a movie you like

    Or songs or artists you like

    Anything

    You just go completely blank and can't think of anything like your brain turns into jelly when they ask it ?

    Ye all the time hate that question

  • Jun 14, 2022
    Skrimps N Grits

    Had this same problem too, my roommates sister brought over her friends last year for her birthday. So they asked who I like to bump and I suddenly blurted out “The Game”

    Everyone laughed at me smh

  • Jun 14, 2022
    DVLPR

    If they ask for music show them your recently added on am/spotify. If they ask for movies just say toy story

    showing people your spotify instead of just telling them what u listen to