Im starting to notice he drinks alot and will tell me hes drunk every time i see him, but today reached a point of annoyance with me cuz i need something important from him and i asked him if it was fine if i come thru and pick it up and he says cool. I arrive about 30 minutes later and i message him. And i wait for about 10 minutes before i start calling him. Now this is important af so im freaking out calling him multiple times and still no answer. So i got knocking on his door, thinking hes sleep, so i bang hard for a few minutes..
Still nothing. So now an hour has passed and im worried cuz like what if he passed out or something, so i go around to his back window and see its open, i cant really climb in it so im just yelling his name in his house. Still no answer.
About an hour after that his dad arrives and goes and checks on him, and tells me he not moving, he just a hard sleeper and he cant even get him up so i had to leave. Is this a drinking thing?
And i know if he would have lied cuz me and this nigga been friends since middle school and his parents are pretty upstanding people and wouldnt lie like that for him

sound like that nigga dead

I noticed hes always like this when it comes to sleep. We used to work at the same job and he got fired cuz it would be times he would just sleep thru his alarm and the 50 missed calls from his boss. Which is crazy because he was such a good worker no one wanted to fire him, but it just kept happening

hmmmm. weird man. if you a grown ass man having like deep sleep issues like that you should prolly see a doctor.

I diagnose ur friend with sleep apnea he needs a CPAP please get him help ASAP before it's too late

Cc @Tubig

Was this important thing you were picking up from him money? Bro playing dead so he doesn’t have to pay you

Nah its just something for my car

Hes also just usually bad with plans to the point alot of our old friends stopped fw him cuz of that. Like we will make plans, 80% of the time he will make them, then day of will just go ghost and pop up the next day like “mb yall i was just f***ed up”
A friend of ours bought tickets to something and he ghosted us the day of and hit us up at 1am that morning saying the usual

He finally just hmu like “i was sleep”

Its sad hes like this too cuz hes prob the smartest guy i know, he literally went from maintenance position to head of IT at our job just by helping people and getting that good with everyone then just ghosted the job

Its sad hes like this too cuz hes prob the smartest guy i know, he literally went from maintenance position to head of IT at our job just by helping people and getting that good with everyone then just ghosted the job

souns like you're the one w a nosey problem, let him live

He sounds like a s***ty person no offense

Oh Nah he's got a serious problem. Only thing you can do is suggest help. He has to want it for himself

you answered your question in the first sentence

he's probably depressed need to get him out of the house if he your real homie