People are gonna do weird, confusing or even just f***ed up s*** and you can’t take it personally or dwell on it. You just have to be able to recognize what kind of behavior they have, separate yourself from them and move on with your life.

I used to get really mad or hurt when people would do f***ed up stuff (betray me, try to use or manipulate me, just be cruel in general etc) because I guess I was insecure and thought it was because of a deficiency or a weakness in myself but I’ve realized their actions are not a reflection of me.

Their actions have nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them and the issues they’re dealing with. I can’t control them and shouldn’t try to, which I’ve been known but never internalized.

I just can’t let people’s behavior disturb my peace and sense of understanding in my self. Otherwise I’ll always be affected by people and their negative energy.

yes

OP’s introspective arc has begun

So you separated yourself from clinging on to the digital memories of your girl and now you're going to move on with your life right?

as long as you got the long stroke you’ll be alright b

Why not?

I’m the opposite i’m done not caring

Didn’t she cheated on you though?

You should completely move on from her at this point if you have any dignity left.

She don’t even think about you and you still hung up on her.

Go out and meet someone else

She cheated on you man

I used to care too much or not give a s*** at all. Pandemic has made me a sociopath ngl

secret garden

Wait so you didn't delete everything?

Delete them

7-8 months and you still think about her

I mean do you, you’re just setting up yourself to be a sucka in the future

I love OPs threads

Some niggas on here take things VERY personally lol

Easy to say when u ain't got adhd

You playin yourself thinking you not gonna open my eyes only and look at those photos every now and again. That’s just hindering your progress in moving on

I needed to read that.

"When you run up against someone else's shamelessness, ask yourself this: Is a world without shamelessness possible? No. Then don't ask the impossible. There have to be shameless people in the world."

Facts OP, cruel and dishonest people are to be expected in your everyday life, so to be surprised and take things personally when someone does you wrong is useless

I do and it's possible to overcome this. Meditation and stoicism helped/ are helping me a lot to embrace this mindset

Idk They’re relatable and ur just a hilarious poster 😂 the one about the home girl got me cryin rn

Preach