Yeah we know people that get into relationships usually gain weight because they feel more secure and can relax. Just wondering fellas if there is any secret to keeping your girl on her toes so she still cares about her weight?

I saw some tiktok jokingly saying that a girl wasn't planning to go to the gym but then remembered that her boyfriend's exes were thin giving her motivation to go. Is this the right move? .

Looking for tips

make bad comments regarding obese fat f***ers when you're around her

lead by example. hit the gym yourself and don't spend entire days eating ice cream in bed with her

Left tackles usually pretty large bro

question i asked in on your mind earlier. if your long term girl does gain weight, and doesnt take the advice to lose it, are you an a****** if you leave?

Idk get fat with her

10 million but the love of your life instantly gets cankles

be hella fatphobic

All the Life sxn trolls came in here first like the Power Rangers

Depends on how they gain weight.

If it's meds or something out of her control, then you shouldn't be pressed cause it will pass after the situation. If she is pregnant and keeps the baby weight you have no excuse. She sacrificed her body to have a child.

If they let themselves go and be a slob, and don't take in your help/advice to be fit then you're not in the wrong to leave (if you don't have kids). You literally aren't attracted to them anymore.

Also if they do fix themselves after you leave then you made the right choice. They never were going to be fit with you.

Just go to the gym with her make it a routine…you don’t gotta guilt her into it or shame her

If they don't want to go to the gym then find another activity to keep fit and have fun like biking or swimming as well.

u giving advice on relationships is like me giving advice on how to cook a steak

Let her be

it's just common sense

The guys who don’t do any physical exercise but expect their girlfriends to have perfect bodies are stupid af…I hope that’s not you @op

Go to the gym/exercise together consistently…make it a routine/fun thing

yup! compeltely agree.

distinction as you said made between things out of the persons control, as in aging, pregnancy as you aid, meds, compared to just letting yourself go.

same imo would go for like face tatts or something like that.

i also think just because one side says "but i still would be with you if you became fat" binds the other person into thinking the same way

She got big, so I left

idk but ima get this fat ass pump

i get it cause youre vegan

no its cuz i make my wife cook everything

She’s gonna blow up like a ballon. If you physically lose attraction to her it’s not wrong to leave. Jus communicate that her weight gain is a strain on the relationship.

$1,000,000,000 or your girl gets fat as s***

Someone avi post I cant rn