I've somehow become everyone's go to person when they stressed.
Alone in the last month or so I've logged like 30+ hrs on the phone consoling my niggas who are going through emotional stuff mostly cause of they relationships. S*** starting to stress me out and trigger me. This happen to everyone else.

Straight up you need to let them know that you love them, but you're dealing with your own problems.

Being that person people go to for their problems is a great feeling at first, makes you feel important and wanted. However when that starts to affect you on a personal basis, you gotta start looking out for yourself before it affects you too much.

im literally went through the same s***
it takes a physical toll on you bro eventually you kinda gotta be selfish take off your phone for hours etc
being the go to person is the f***ing worst

This. I feel like I'm carrying to much baggage that aint even mine

Are they there for you tho when you're down and out?

This i can't handle it. I have my own problems

at least you got people hitting you up and knowing they can count on you

Yeah actually

Its nice but forreal. Just a can I ask you something before offloading is all I need

when you get put into the catgegory of the "strong one" your venting gonna get ignored bruh trust me dont get put into this place

I swear this is me with every girlfriend . Im the strong one and they can cry to me even if its about me. Yet when im upset with them its like I can't say anything to them cause nothing is supposed to bother me.

yea every emotion you feel they will look at you like "nahh he really aint in pain like that" or "he just playin he will be aight"
u gott draw them boundaries or complain once in a while so they remember you a human lol i know it sounds stupid bu being "strong" is like oh look a person i can weigh down with all my issues

I had a girl tell me all she thought i wanted was s***and was weirded out by my emotions after months when I finally expressed i was upset.. Whole time I was her person to vent to and cry to. She didn't speak to anyone else. I used to always calm her down when she was crying.

That suuuuucks 😭

Thug it out then