@op these were messages sent to me by a girl that I f***ed a couple weeks later
B****es will fw you if they fw you. They won’t care if you’re a serial killer if they fw you.
Just be yourself and vibe with who you vibe with
this red flaggish congrats on the success though im guessing you're not a poc though aint no way u wouldn't get blocked after all that
this red flaggish congrats on the success though im guessing you're not a poc though aint no way u wouldn't get blocked after all that
LMAO! She's taking an interest in his interests/perspectives, and I respect that.
We're bumping this KTT2 classic.
Just from ur post u sound that way
I concur
I miss u
Hope homie is doing good and had some awesome life experiences.
Hope he's out there with a beautiful grill and stopped being an loser
Grills > relationships
"I have a lot of lame perspectives/attitudes and habits that I’m ashamed of and don’t feel like sharing with a 29 year old woman. My true unfiltered self is a carefree manchild"
Felt
@op these were messages sent to me by a girl that I f***ed a couple weeks later
B****es will fw you if they fw you. They won’t care if you’re a serial killer if they fw you.
Just be yourself and vibe with who you vibe with
I wanna know ur response to her questions if u dont mind
Is that a sign of autism or is it something that can be worked on? I probably spent more time on the phone with her than I have with anyone else in my entire adult life so I trust her assessment
From my perspective, I was just letting her do most of the talking and kept things surface level with regards to myself out of fear of seeming unattractive, immature, or lost in life.
I have a lot of lame perspectives/attitudes and habits that I’m ashamed of and don’t feel like sharing with a 29 year old woman. My true unfiltered self is a carefree manchild
Im carefree for the most part lol women love it bc they love fun (provided ur responsible when it matters and a good listener).
Ask her if she knows/how she feels ab the things ur interested in (the more recent the better) and then give ur thoughts. Its literally your world to dictate and determine who stays with you based on what u like
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”
— Dr. Seuss, children’s author and filmmaker
shes a b**** and a w**** onto the next one
Man we need to find where this guy is now. I remember he used to post selfies. If we could try to find those we could possibly reverse image search his face and find out who he is and get him back on here for some updates
@op the way you describe it it does sound like you fr just need to open up a bit more, slowly. it isn't easy but ultimately the only way you're ever gonna feel safe around anyone is to allow them into your head a bit.
it's maybe easier to frame it just like you do here - you can also just talk about feeling weird that you don't have strong opinions for example, just be real about things.
see if she engages w empathy when you explain why you struggle to open up and show her something real, and if not - the whole dance is probably not worth it w her anyway. you'll honestly feel better either way, bc if she's being weird to you being open you at least know where you're at. the uncertainty and hiding yourself is the most crippling part.
honestly, I don't know how she said this but her being so brash to call you empty and cold is pretty hurtful language and kind of a red flag to me. maybe she's also just a bit immature in that way herself, but yh.