For the rest of this year, never pursue/approach women and see how well that goes for you. I'm not saying all women are absolutely against it, but I'd say most feel the guy should be the one to approach them, even if they're interested A lot of women refuse to put themselves out there and risk being rejected

Women pursue a lot from my experience

You're right, there's a lot of other risks that come with women pursuing guys. Rejection actually pretty low on the list

Lmao "See how well that goes for you..."

You're the one using dating apps dude. I'm a grown ass man lmaoooo I think I've lived life long enough & experienced enough to form my own opinion bro.

Get off the apps man....

This is not rare dude. My girl, I've been with for years pursued me. At work. This happened like two of the last three b****es I talked to.

You're expecting a b**** that's getting 20+ guys on a app everyday to go out of her way to talk to you

who had this belief, you'd have to be god ugly or extremely off putting to think that

Ctfu.

I'm not on any apps. Took less than a week for me to realize it's too superficial and not for me It's just an example I used. Bumble is considered one of the worst dating apps and I'm saying that's because it makes women take the lead

We have a woman right here in this thread saying it's not a good idea for women to approach guys first. And I guarantee you, she's not the only one who feels that way There are lots of women who feel just smiling/making eye contact is enough, the guy has to be the one who pursues her

But maybe it's cultural differences. I live in a country where women aren't safe at all, so they don't feel comfortable approaching random men

What country are you in?

South Africa. It's actually crazy over here for women. Statistically speaking, a woman gets murdered every 3 hours

Damn. Yeah, Idk s*** about South African socializing. Let me stfu

They do but not as obviously as guys usually

duh

I’ve been fat or just ugly my whole life so I barely know what this is like

Crine

Bruh u are literally good looking u just be on some self loathing pity party low self esteem s***

U could go pull some chick rn if u weren’t so in your head

Been known, they just lowkey wid it.

Oh brother

Why don’t girls ever pursue me then

I came