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UrameshiiOh absolutely
That is WILD
1996 BRLYou gotta get some mystique
Then you won't need social media
Just live life lol
EmotionI hate to say this bro but many girls see that as a red flag. Even if you're not active is fine but having no digital presence is alarming to most women nowadays. I don't think guys care if a girl doesn't have IG or socials
I've never met a girl that's told me that's a red flag but I'm in my 30s. Feel like it's a different mindset the older you get
- Emotion
I'll put it to you like this bro
Girl meets 2 guys (attractiveness is irrelevant in this example)
Guy 1: has IG, posts regular s***. No red flags seems like a regular dude
Girl: hmm I might give this guy a chance
Guy 2: no social media or online presence.
Girl: yeah idk about this dude he could be a serial killer or have a wife and kids or something
This May seems like an exaggeration but I've literally heard this verbatim from friends and girls I've met. S*** bro some girls even run your name and dob through casenet websites looking up your public court records and s***
This is why that tea app blew up as much as it did a year ago because when it comes to dating who someone presents themselves to be could be completely different than who they are. As stupid as social media is it does provide a sense of who you are as a person or what your interests are. S*** I've personally even pulled girls who I don't even know but they see me post at the same places they be at and message me directly. Now mind you I'm in my 20s and maybe this is just how young women think but in my experience asking for someone's IG is the new phone number
Damn like a credit score
I have no social media and I am married with a kid 🤔🤔
But I don’t try to get women lol
- ·1 replyEmotion
Very fine difference between no socials (or just doesn't want to give it to you) and someone who has socials but isn't active. Me for example I only post on IG when I travel or goto an event. Maybe a couple times a month or maybe on the weekends I'll post on my story. I don't really watch people stories or scroll
This sounds like a normal guy this is why you have a Benito avi too 😌 you know the game and nowadays both parties have to
- ·1 replyJim Halpert
That is WILD
The dating scene has evolved and somehow regressed at the same time s***s nuts out here for all of us single ladies/gentleman
- ·1 replyUrameshii
The dating scene has evolved and somehow regressed at the same time s***s nuts out here for all of us single ladies/gentleman
It kinda sounds awful
Grew up in a different time I reckon. Thank god. This sounds like work.
- ·1 replyJim Halpert
It kinda sounds awful
It can be
- ·1 replyUrameshii
It can be
It’s like that black mirror social credit episode
Another thread where I love and appreciate my wife so much more
- ·1 replyJim Halpert
It’s like that black mirror social credit episode
I think I said that as a comment “this is my dating life” 
- ·1 replyUrameshii I think I said that as a comment “this is my dating life”
Dam
- ·1 replyJim Halpert
Dam
Nah I’m kidding my life is actually good just curving weirdos left and right
thriving In Chicago 
but the dating s*** is all been cooked - Urameshii
Nah I’m kidding my life is actually good just curving weirdos left and right
thriving In Chicago but the dating s*** is all been cookedBeen meaning to get up there. I hear amazing things about that city
- ·1 replyUrameshii
This sounds like a normal guy this is why you have a Benito avi too 😌 you know the game and nowadays both parties have to
You fw Omar courtz? I was sleeping on his last album that s*** heat
- Emotion
You fw Omar courtz? I was sleeping on his last album that s*** heat
S*** is my current soundtrack tbh
Yall put too much stress into this s*** and that’s why it “sucks”
Best way to go about this s*** is put your best foot forward with the confidence that however you present yourself to shawty in the initial conversation will make her want to engage in however communication you like & resilience to know if you brick, it prolly had nothing to do with you:
I used to ask IG but I’ve grown to hate social media this year so I do #s or hinge.
Had a great engaging conversation about anime with a woman at a club asked for her ig, said thanks but she was married.
It dont matter if your ig is popping or your real life is popping, they say most humans know within the 1st few seconds of meeting someone if they would f*** or not. Then (if the former) it’s up to the person’s words to determine if they gon seal the deal.
There’s no rules to this s*** dawg lol
A girl i knew dated a nigga she met at the park and all he gave her was his email address.
There’s no rules to this s***.
·editedyou gotta secure the number and establish a link. simple. everything else like social media will get established as we talk about each other. but if I get her number, I’m letting her know I got home and texting her the next day to see if we can link within the week
·2 repliesTl;dr: if she like you she not gon care what you ask for
Keep it light/funny, ask for their number, make no mention of social media, end of story. Not really a complicated process to overthink
- insertcoolnamehere
Tl;dr: if she like you she not gon care what you ask for
Yup
- insertcoolnamehere
Tl;dr: if she like you she not gon care what you ask for
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·1 replyWhats more stressful asking a girl for her number or posting in a group chat u rarely post in
