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  • I graduated highschool in 2013, and went straight into the workforce. My family needed me for their asbestos removal & demolition business after Hurricane Sandy hit NJ in 2012.

    I wasn’t really interested in college at the time, I just wanted money, and that’s what I got.

    I am grateful for everything, especially being able to help my family for the last 9 or so years… but I felt so incredibly unfulfilled.

    But now, I am pretty sure about what I am doing.

    After years of contemplation, I finally I enrolled at my local Community College with the intent to transfer to a 4-year school after I complete my Associates of Art degree, and then I plan on majoring in Industrial Design!

    I’ve always been incredibly artistic, and I always wanted to pursue a job as an Architect or Interior Designer, but I am fascinated with creating products people can use.

    Anyway, this is all so new to me, so any advice would be grateful

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    Congrats & enjoy the experience! @op

    I assume you likely won't be living in the dorms, so do what you can to meet people by going to events, joining clubs, actually talking to people in class, etc.

    Despite what others are gonna say about your age, ignore them, Older people in college is common and no one is gonna give a f***.

    Don't forget to network as you go because that s*** can help you later on.

  • proper 🔩
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    tell other students that you are still 19 years old - @Jihyo

  • Nov 14, 2022

    Good luck bro wherever you go enjoy the journey

    If anything be open to new experiences and meeting new people no matter how big or small the interaction tbh whether it be a big party or going to pick up Alc from the store type s***. Try and be intentional with the moments you make cuz ppl will remember that the most.

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    Totally go for it if it’s what you’re set on. Would you stay in-state or look to go out of state? regardless the campus atmosphere and school spirit are great imo, and being surrounded strictly by people in their 20s is crazy. along with the things you can learn at a university given the resources being a student gives you

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    chill with the other mature students. they have fun but are also very serious 'bout their studies

  • Nov 14, 2022
    FKA Tadow

    Congrats & enjoy the experience! @op

    I assume you likely won't be living in the dorms, so do what you can to meet people by going to events, joining clubs, actually talking to people in class, etc.

    Despite what others are gonna say about your age, ignore them, Older people in college is common and no one is gonna give a f***.

    Don't forget to network as you go because that s*** can help you later on.

    I live about 13 minutes away from campus, so I am very lucky overall.

    Thanks for the advice!

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    hoopsplayer21

    Totally go for it if it’s what you’re set on. Would you stay in-state or look to go out of state? regardless the campus atmosphere and school spirit are great imo, and being surrounded strictly by people in their 20s is crazy. along with the things you can learn at a university given the resources being a student gives you

    I think I’ll stay in state after.

    But who knows, I have to figure out which school will have the best program for my major. I’ll figure that out as I get closer to completing my community college s***.

  • Nov 14, 2022
    iluvmusic123

    chill with the other mature students. they have fun but are also very serious 'bout their studies

    For sure

    I was on campus today, and I heard another student say his birthday was 2003 lmaooooo crazy

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    I'm back at 25 and so far it's been so worth it, there's a bunch of early-mid 30 year olds in my classes so I don't even feel old in comparison. My grades have never been higher and I would rather be in school than work a 9-5 job I despise

  • Nov 14, 2022

    congrats on having the courage

    focus on your schooling above all else within reason

  • Nov 14, 2022

    No advice however i'm happy for u and am proud u ☺️

  • Nov 14, 2022

    get it boss there shouldnt be these predetermined career and education time periods in life. you got direction in your goals go out an get it!

  • Nov 14, 2022

    schooling later is honestly so much better

    if youre 25+ going back youre more likely experienced, comfortable with yourself & have more discipline plus being way more decisive/concentrated about your schooling & things

    SHOUT OUT TO THAT FULLY DEVELOPED FRONTAL LOBE

  • Nov 14, 2022

    happy for you :_)

  • Nov 14, 2022

    Congrats brother, it’s never too late. Stay focused. I found college to be very transformative period in my life. When I think back to college, I always come back to the heavy emphasis on the freedom of choice. You alone can make college any kind of experience you want it to be.

  • Nov 14, 2022

    damn op a jersian, you just like me fr

  • Nov 14, 2022

    I really respect your decision OP. I think you'll be a lot more focused than your peers

  • Nov 14, 2022

    Never too old to learn something new

  • Nov 15, 2022

    Make sure you establish connections, get to know your teachers and peers that are doing well. Think of your portfolio and make sure you find time to update it

  • Nov 15, 2022

    Yo OP.
    Im 28 and struggled to know what I wanted to do career wise for years. A couple years ago I hit a huge rut in my job and realized I wasn’t happy at all. After a lot of contemplation I realized I needed to go back to school and pursue something that would make me wanna get up in the morning.

    Best decision I’ve ever made. Im in year 3 of my 4 year degree now and I’m so glad I went back. Don’t sweat your age. You’ll make friends, and tbh you’ll probably find you’re a lot better at school now than you were 10 years ago. Good for you for taking this leap. Stay committed, it’ll be worth it in the long run

    Oh also - you’re still very young. Don’t let other people tell you otherwise

  • AR15 💯
    Nov 15, 2022

    F*** some college b****es

  • Community college sucks in terms of meeting new people

    Always look up your professors in rate your professor.com

    Definitely meet your professors during Office hours tsp they can get a good grasp of who you are as a person

  • Nov 15, 2022

    It's a shame your d*** stops working after 19 or you could've been getting laid a lot.

  • Nov 15, 2022

    post secondary in your later 20s is a cheat code tbh

    most likely more mature, organized, motivated/driven by then