ngl I can understand this somewhat, the typical monogamous relationship isn't for everybody and trying to force it on some folks ends up in disappointment for everybody.

When I was freshly single I ended up abstaining from sex/relationships for like 10 months to figure out what I wanted out of that aspect of life, hopefully your journey goes smooth fam

how you have a good job, a house, I assume a car, and confidence but you're broke af? Maybe I'm misunderstanding but it seems like you might need more context for what being 'broke' is.

frfr

when he says finance, he means bank teller

How are you running these numbers? Dating apps?

Also, I can totally relate. After going through some of this myself, I took some time off.

Now I'm hesitating to get back in because I can't help but ask myself, "Why? What's the point?"

And... well... I suppose the point is to find someone I really click with and be steady. But that's also a tough thing to find unless I really put time and energy into looking.

how dare you suggest this to the longstroke

Sounds like you need to learn to love yourself instead of seeking validation through s***and money/career

You right

Ok I gotta know... what's your approach IRL?

If you’re finding value or escape in these relationships then your going to hit a wall.

Go into theserelationships with a more centered mindset.

LMAO

therapy will help you fam.

Op had enough of f***ing fat b****es

I swear I've told you this many times before

Op sounds like u have the will smith disease

Love yourself. Rough days or cold thoughts remember it's all perspective. We gunna be ok

yeah man , I feel like its important for everyone to get therapy. Helps a lot.

I just got my work benefits. Ill book them now

Some would say it’s just beginning

I’ve been here since the beginning, don’t know how I feel about it but wow man it’s been a ride

Thanks, bro. Appreciate the insight. You ever do this at the gym? I've thought about it at times, but it seems like a bad move. I'm seeing some of these girls once or twice a week. Feels weird if I go for it and it doesn't work out. Would still have to run into them + would I go for another girl at the gym? And repeat the cycle? Sounds kinda wild lmao. I only ask because this is the main place where I'm consistently running into chicks.